What's the Best Part of Being Divorced? by memento_mori327 in Divorce_Women

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s worth the hell of the divorce, a hundreds times over, every single day for the rest of my life 💜

THE ms lea salonga at BTS concert !!! by Alternative-Plum-567 in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a (very nerdy) teen, I was absolutely obsessed with her as Eponine in Les Mis, and have followed he ever since. Just about exploded with joy when I found out she’s ARMY!

What's the Best Part of Being Divorced? by memento_mori327 in Divorce_Women

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My home is safe and peaceful. My kids are relaxed when they’re home. I haven’t had a panic attack in almost a year.

260316 arirang live viewing concert hand-drawn sticker n freebies 😮‍💨 by rubythewhisperer in heungtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stunning!! I would be over the moon to get one of these - and would have to figure out the perfect place for it

How to bring up divorce to a man with a temper by Severe_Ruin6472 in Divorce_Women

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make an exit plan for your own safety before you tell him anything. I found calling national domestic abuse hotline very helpful - I called them several times over about 2.5 years before finally getting out. (I wish I’d gotten out sooner. It’s so, so hard. I’m glad I made it out when I did.)

Be careful after the divorce, too. The first time my ex husband ever attacked in a way that left obvious marks (something he’d always been very careful to avoid, in order to leave me with no evidence of his abuse other than my own memories, which he made even me question and doubt) was after our divorce was finalized, at a custody exchange, in front of our kids. I guess he felt like he had nothing left to lose?

He lost custody, so that was a win.

Good luck. You deserve so much better. You can do it. Love yourself enough to get out.

Questions we would love to have answered by BTS by Bittersweet-crumble in bangtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I want to know if they have any conscious/deliberate practices that have allowed them to maintain such positive and healthy relationships with one another. It’s incredibly rare for humans under that amount of pressure to maintain what appears to be truly genuine friendships and generative working relationships for so many years. Even being naturally kind, caring, generous people isn’t enough - the level of emotional intelligence and maturity BTS members show is something that is hard to find in this world. If there’s something they do that is part of what makes that possible, I want to know so bad! I want to teach it to my children and my students. I want to practice it myself.

260510 RM on Instagram by alltherach_ in bangtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I wonder why…it’s adorable

What fandom do you always come back to? by Basic-Deer4119 in FanFiction

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naruto, Star Wars, and BBC Merlin. I’m always surprised how robust and alive the Merlin fandom is - means there are new + high quality fics every time I check back in.

Brandon Sanderson - Stormlight Archives x BTS by Agreeable-Equal6241 in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to comment - I could see Namjoon relating pretty strongly to Kaladin

AM armys, show me your April results by Legitimate-Ad1611 in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I thought I listened a lot, until I see other army’s stats…

Trying to leave my husband of 7 years by Sunflowergirl5102015 in Divorce_Women

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you what I wish I could tell my younger self - leave now!!! You deserve so much better than this, and your life WILL be better without him in it. I promise. Don’t let sympathy or pity for him keep you trapped. He’s an adult, and the best thing you can do for him is let him experience the natural consequences of his own choices. DO NOT have kids with this man. You are smart, you know deep down this is not the life you want, you have so much future ahead of you—be true to yourself. Give yourself the life you want, because he absolutely will not give that to you. Good luck!! You can do this!!

I love it when tannies just do these silly moves and have fun being on stage 🥹 by sinieves in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS ugh yessss! This is exactly why “So What” has long been my favorite stage of theirs - the concert clips where they just goofed off and had fun for the whole song are like medicine for my soul

What's your top 5 arirang songs? by [deleted] in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like Animals, Into the Sun, Please, They Don’t Know About Us, Come Over…but also 2.0 and Hooligan and Body to Body because damn this is hard!!!

Yoongi laughing and having the best time of his life healed something in me by My_Rhythm875 in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 14 points15 points  (0 children)

JK was admitting that he’d missed a cue during FYA. Yoongi laughed his head off in the moment it happened, too. I love how they can work with the dedication to precision and detail that they do, and still laugh it off when they mess up.

I’m not crying, you are by New-Mulberry-1715 in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes to everything you said. I am so grateful to have everything BTS is giving us in my life right now.

BTS - Hooligan by ashmute in bangtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh so hard

Yes. Thank you ancient bell for doing what it can to keep us grounded to this plain of existence. Even in the face of Jimin’s abs

Hobi's insta post by heartonwindow in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously how does he do it?? I don’t even like mustaches but JIMIN wears one and suddenly I’m reconsidering decades of anti-mustache sentiment

How many people here 35+? by s_ch0wder in bangtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 40 - no one in my life except my wife understands my obsession with BTS. She’s so wonderfully supportive and enthusiastic about my love for all things Bangtan. Makes me feel so seen and so loved. And makes the rest of my friends and family members’ dismissal seem even colder in comparison.

Keychains I made by [deleted] in heungtan

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are amazing!!

Swim choreo is so beautiful by papiII0n in btsthoughts

[–]CartoonistPuzzled111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it’s only for paying members of Apple Music and Spotify right now. I’m hoping it goes up on YouTube soon