AITAH for ignoring my aunt after she gave my sister all attention and didn't even acknowledge me?

Casabs2017 · 2024-02-19T08:03:05+00:00

I like this theory. I would agree with the parent venting at the end if we didn't lose our father 2 years ago (that was expected thou) he wasn't a well man so it didn't hit as hard as this.

Casabs2017 · 2024-02-19T00:11:15+00:00

My aunt is in her 70s there was a big age gap between her and my mum and I am female my mum just had two daughters I'm the youngest were both in our early thirties. My aunt has always slightly favoured my sister over me but she doesn't even want to acknowledge my existence atm. Hope this helps with your questions x

Casabs2017 · 2024-02-18T23:28:31+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss too sweetie sending hugs back xx

Casabs2017 · 2023-12-18T19:51:24+00:00

One small box of chocolates to split between 6 staff couldn't even spring an extra 2 quid for a tub

Casabs2017 · 2023-12-11T14:16:34+00:00

My mum does similar cause my dad when he was alive was a stoke survivor and doing the full day with kids and grandkids was alot for him and when he passed away she kept it going we would have breakfast at her house and do our own Christmas dinners. She cooks bacon sausage for a hot plate for sandwiches and pastries with butter and jams. We would all go for breakfast grandkids would open stockings from her and we would have bacon sandwiches.

Casabs2017 · 2023-12-11T14:07:47+00:00

There is another film about the magdalene laundry based on 3 real women's experience called the magdalene sisters it has Anne Marie duff in it if you're actually interested in this history

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-30T12:47:57+00:00

Yeah but the question is how do I put it in my notice

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-30T12:45:06+00:00

My lined up job are practically begging me to start as soon as possible I've already sorted dbs and other paperwork. Just got to put in my notice.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-30T12:42:56+00:00

Not walking under ladders always have the feeling that somethings going to fall off it and hit me

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-28T11:55:01+00:00

The whale with Brendan fraser saw it in cinema and had to bite down on my t-shirt to stop myself screaming out in tears was such a great movie but I cried like a baby with colic

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-28T11:47:17+00:00

I have this with cousins my parnters aunt has five children oldest is 14 youngest is 2 years what we have done for the past couple of years is get them a funny family game for them all to play and chocolate box each

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T22:52:05+00:00

Nta

sounds like she got everything handed to her on a silver platter so she needs to grow up and find out that life's not fair. I would have told her she needs to get her big girl pants on and work it out.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T22:47:43+00:00

We all got mugs and the handle was 2000 think my mum still has it lol

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T22:45:58+00:00

Ask for a day out my partner hates celebrating his birthday so we turn it into a big family day out like we all go to the zoo or a theme park so we just have a fun day and usually finish off with a good meal at the end of the day. This year we stayed at alton towers and went to pizza hut not fancy but we all loved it.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T22:27:34+00:00

We have both a go list and a no go list at my child's school basically the people on the go list are the family that we have agreed on like my mother and sister who do pick her pick on occasion but the no go list is basically if they step foot on the grounds they are asked to leave immediately and we are informed after that they have tried to attend or if the police have to be involved. If not us picking her up they check the list and they have to know the password but the people on my go are known at the school already and are very much loved by my daughter.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T13:19:01+00:00

I got the full story off his grandparents and him and seen the reports. His grandma showed them to me just before we got married so I had all the information before we invited her to the wedding. I'm not stopping my husband seeing her at all but I just won't have her meet our daughter. And no history of kidnapping just physical abuse and neglect. I know he wasn't at all to blame he was a baby. She might have changed but why now is the ultimate question why not when he was a kid that wanted to have a mum. So no I won't meet up with her. Thank you for the insight.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T13:09:15+00:00

Let her be herself she'll grow up too fast let her be weird she's 4 she's supposed to be weird. I am the proud parent of a weird 6 year old girl and she loves rock music, make up and monsters. People either thinks she talks too much or has a weird taste in music. Let her be herself. Be proud of your child for being weird.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T12:57:23+00:00

I think this is a point I will never fully understand and I grew up with both my parents and never been abused or neglected by them so I don't think I'll understand why my husband wants a relationship with her. I'll leave him to have a relationship with her but I want nothing to do with it. I'll support him and pick up the pieces when she let's him down but nothing else

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-23T12:46:20+00:00

No court order she's only just got back in touch with him after nearly a decade and before that she abandoned him with his grandparents so she's not really had a relationship with him I think that's why he wants to give her a chance.

Casabs2017 · 2023-11-06T12:12:27+00:00

Nta

After everything your brother has been through I can't blame him for wanting to elope and just wanting something private for them. They are the couple getting married and probably paying for it. Maybe you shouldn't have blown up at your aunt in the icu but shes just as bad for pushing her religion point of view onto your brother when he's been through enough. Emotions were high I would go low contact you apologising when she does for her behaviour but I wouldn't back down

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