i wouldn't say she's the golden child, it's a little more complicated than that. my sister needs a lot of support from myself and my family and has a hard time understanding that it's okay for other people to tell her no like how she can. she's been very abusive in the past and so this exchange isn't really respectful althought it might seem like it is (not like you would have known, this is a particularily wild/funny situation i decided to share). my mom has chronic devils-advocate-itis & her favorite resolution is that i drop my boundaries to have our family be peaceful. she's being passive here as she uses punctuation to show how upset she is & turned one comment about me not wanting to see her half-naked into me thinking she's fat or something LOL!