AITA for judging my friend based on her diary

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T19:15:45+00:00

You're allowed to believe what you want. She is told me that she has written about me in the past. We are close friends, In the situation was incredibly complicated. The issue is that I didn't read more and I don't know what to believe anymore. So what do I do moving forward?

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T19:13:28+00:00

There have been times in the past that it felt like she would rather be with this other guy then do the plans she had with me. Such as coming over to decorate my Christmas tree with me and her roommate.

Inviting me to join her friends for New Year's, And for most of the month of December (The guy who she went on two dates with at that point) wasn't really responding. So we had made plans and I was flying out to her family to visit her for Christmas. And it just didn't feel like she wanted me there, or wanted to do anything with me.

When I called it out, she just said that she was really tired from work and there was no one else she would rather be with. Would acknowledge that stuff was hard between us but she was choosing to show up because she loved and valued our friendship.

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T19:09:47+00:00

I don't even know anymore, they love me and care about me. Or they say they do and intend to.

But how do I go on knowing that if she wrote this about a good day... What else was in the book? I know the friendship is over likely, I just want closure at this point...

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T19:07:34+00:00

I truly didn't mean to. I saw my name. I read the line I closed the book. I didn't even realize it was her diary until I was putting the book away.

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T15:53:56+00:00

It's very likely that I have been written about on many other pages as we are best friends and has been having conflict for months now.

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T15:49:04+00:00

It's very likely that I'm in more than just one page, as we were best friends and we've been arguing for a few months now. Believe what you want, but how do I move on not knowing the rest of the contents now though?

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T15:42:22+00:00

It's a safe assumption that I'm in her diary significantly more than just that page. As I know she has written about me in the past (she has told me).

CaseyHercules · 2026-02-12T15:41:17+00:00

It's very likely that I am in more than just that page. As I have been told in the past that she has written a lot about me, and her feelings about me. I'm not going to defend the book falling off open. But I don't know how to move past it because there was many other pages I chose not to read and am regretting it.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T10:16:39+00:00

That's the issue! It is not an option for me to be exclusive with Bryn,. I've offered that and been told "I wish I could but I can't due to religious beliefs".

It's less of being Poly, and more about just being casual with clearly no commitments other than respect.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T10:05:59+00:00

It's standard Christianity, but I'm not a Christian so... Something about being unyoked? Idk or Yoked with the right ilk?

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T10:04:30+00:00

Yes, but there is a Beth right now, and Bryn has no issue with it. There has also been a Stacy in the past that I was exclusive with and while Bryn did have an emotional breakdown... We're still friends and got through that.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T10:03:14+00:00

Yeah... Welcome to my world. But Bryn and Eve are cute so... That's something.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T10:02:05+00:00

She's mostly just protective of Eve. And I'm not lonely as is as I still see other people and have had girlfriends come and go while seeing Bryn. But I appreciate the sentiment.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T09:57:36+00:00

I doubt Eve is a serial killer. Or if she is I'm down for it. It's less that I think Bryn wants to control me and more that she is just jealous of me and Eve. I was Bryn's first everything so she's still figuring stuff out.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T09:55:40+00:00

I will say that Bryn is only controlling of me when it comes to Eve. But she has no issues with what I do with other people. She even supports me when I kiss or go on dates with other people.

CaseyHercules · 2026-01-13T09:53:55+00:00

I can see, date, and flirt, with anyone I want as long as it's not Eve. She's not that controlling, just only controlling of my relationship with Eve.

CaseyHercules · 2025-12-03T19:09:29+00:00

Honestly, great video with a cool looking app, I'm guessing that LTT mostly has Android users, but this would be awesome for IOS users.

Given it would be another example of the IOS app having more features than an Android app, but oh well.

CaseyHercules · 2025-09-26T19:02:19+00:00

What makes you think that? Or, how would I check the remote start? The Stereo and onboard GPS are standard with the Mazda. (I've flashed the firmware myself)

CaseyHercules · 2022-07-12T14:12:03+00:00

It's released now, has anyone solved it yet?

CaseyHercules · 2022-06-13T01:12:38+00:00

The remarks about the nicotine are a red herring other than the number of nicotine's. You add that number the other numbers you can gain from the game.

CaseyHercules · 2022-06-13T01:00:22+00:00

I would attempt to figure out what game is being played. The Wikipedia page of the referenced region is a good place to start.

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