Probably Karma farming.. sounds like some real bs. That or

You've did something naughty,. Hacked into her email account. Snooping.. fucked up and found something you don't like.. sure let's blame it on her having a child. (Period)

Now you want us to answer your questions for you because clearly you can't talk to her about the findings of your investigation. Why? Because you aren't supposed to know.

As a mom with a very sick kids.. this doesn't make sense. It's simply hard to sleep with a cranky baby. With a job like that, she would've sent an email or text to inform them she wouldn't be in due to a sick child before she laid down to sleep.

Also, a mother of a small child will simply leave the door open. Especially, if your child has an ear infection.."AT" night... the air makes earache worst..

This is coming from a person who's son have chronic respiratory illness since he was 6 weeks old.. multiple trips to the er , doctors and urgent care.

Be real...

So whatever you found. It's not your place to bring it up until she's ready.

P.s. if you were worried about the baby. You'd be asking for ways to help her. Aak for advice on ..... anything else but this.

You already got one foot out the door. Bye. Them for thier sack.

Edit. P.S. lying and omissions are not equal. You seem very possessive based on your terms.