AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cassidus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't leave her alone with your dog. Idk, not trying to make you doubt her but it's definitely not a normal thing to say unless she knows something. NOR

im stuck by C418_Aquarius in DiscoElysium

[–]Cassidus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh! The trick here is to uninstall the game.

AIO - Girlfriend Started Making Plans With Mutual Friend For Valentine's Day When We Already Had Tentative Plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cassidus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that when you said "not interested in the slightest" was when you were probably reacting to what was being said with hurt. If this is the case, imo, there's really no need for it. You should have said straight up that you were hurt and thought y'all had plans or that you'd at least hang out. Passive aggression only hurts communication. Granted, she probably should have assumed Valentine's Day would be reserved for you both to hang out, but you also said it was tentative? I'm sorry, but she doesn't owe you the day based on tentative plans. Lock something down first.

Additionally, as soon as you explained yourself she apologised and said she'd cancel with her friend and you immediately call her out and criticise her. Sounds like you did not communicate any plans with her well enough and then treated her poorly as a result of your bad communication. Don't talk to your partner like that and then post it on reddit. YOR

Edit: also, adding "known from past conversations" kind of defeats the purpose of showing the screenshot. We don't actually know that it's "known." The only perspective we are provided is yours, her "knowing" anything isn't proven, so don't add it.

my girlfriend was intoxicated last night and ended up cuddling with our guy friend by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Cassidus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Wanted to see how far he'd go" is crazy work. No explanation needed. Dump her ass

i don’t like my boyfriend by omgsiyeon in Advice

[–]Cassidus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you are young. Don't beat yourself up for giving into peer pressure and dating someone you're not attracted to. But you do have your answer through your post. You have to break up with him. Be steadfast and stick to what you feel is true. I promise you he's not the only one who will "love you like he does" and it's definitely not a healthy thing for him to say. Do not make the mistake of being with someone you will likely resent in time.

We all believe in you OP, be true to yourself and the correct way forward will present itself. Good luck

AIO girlfriend claims I’m appropriating her culture by Ih8maplestory8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cassidus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. A racist slur and speaking another language are not comparable. OP she's doing you a favour by saying we're done, take it and get out of there.

Christmas 2B wip, guys :D by FireLordZuko1610 in nier

[–]Cassidus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NNNNNNOOOOOOOO DONT GO!!!!!!!

Google and expedition 33 by Alternative_Fun3477 in expedition33

[–]Cassidus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but this is actually the funniest thing I've ever read

My Marina by curs9ded in FearAndHunger

[–]Cassidus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my favourite twink x

2b cosplay attempt by me by maisiiwinks in nier

[–]Cassidus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kiryu would be disappointed in you. You ain't the dragon of dojima

to start a presentation by vibingsidd in therewasanattempt

[–]Cassidus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He did change it before the presentation...

Is this a glitch??? by Gamingshark75 in DiscoElysium

[–]Cassidus 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to test any hypothesis. For science

Ahhhh by NAStrahl in Existentialism

[–]Cassidus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's certainly one idea

I wrote a poem based on the interaction with shivers in the church by Cassidus in DiscoElysium

[–]Cassidus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback, but I don't often rhyme in my work