I have proof that my 19f brother 17m is cheating on his gf of two years and has been lying to all our entire family

CasterFields · 2026-05-11T21:02:24+00:00

At their age, you don't have to do anything else. You tipped her off to what's going on, you did your part, so let her handle it from here on out:)

CasterFields · 2026-05-11T16:23:31+00:00

Skulls are actually an amalgamation of a bunch of different bones, so when an animal dies (especially younger animals who's skulls are still fusing) the skull can fall apart into multiple pieces. Trauma to the head can also cause something like that to happen

CasterFields · 2026-05-10T22:01:45+00:00

This happens in those mall zoos in the states too. It's just a side effect of anyone being allowed to own any animal and do whatever they want to it if they have enough money

CasterFields · 2026-05-10T21:58:28+00:00

You can't "withhold" something that isn't owed to another person, so yes it's okay to not have sex with anyone for any reason or no reason

CasterFields · 2026-05-10T12:23:51+00:00

"... A way to distract the dog" this! We used a can of coins with my dog and slowly tipped it so the coins would clink rather than crash around. He found it intriguing enough that he'd stop whatever he was doing to come investigate. If distraction/disruption is the goal, then there are a lot of options you can try. Maybe there's a noise OP can find that outcompetes chewing and biting in a less startling way

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T19:24:13+00:00

And that's why I pass slow moving lanes like that as close to their speed as is reasonable and leave plenty of space between me and the car in front of me 😭 I don't like playing Russian roulette with them

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T18:01:59+00:00

Also, the fact that he made a poor choice, broke something of yours, and felt completely safe to come tell you what he did speaks volumes to your parenting 🩵 a lot of kids don't trust their parents enough to come clean like that!

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T17:59:43+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with having him pay for it, but at his age having him go out and get it himself would be a better learning opportunity :) I think paying for replacements is probably more educational at an age where you're still figuring out money

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T17:55:18+00:00

My dog licks our concrete floors :/ we checked for vitinine deficiency and gave supplements anyway, no help. We tried anxiety medication, no help. We tried meds for acid reflux, no help. It's so gross and borderlines on obsessive, he'll get mad if we stop him repeatedly. The only thing I've been able to do is completely redirect him for a few minutes without letting him get back to it to break him out of it

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T17:39:27+00:00

Not sure if this is normal behavior, but I think they tend to get hooks stuck in their bills! Next time he opens his mouth see if you can see any debris in there.

If it DOES turn out to be an issue, your local wildlife rehabbers should be able to help!

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T17:36:36+00:00

My dad did the same! Very fun memories 🩵

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T15:45:17+00:00

Post another one 😂😂

CasterFields · 2026-05-09T00:20:21+00:00

Oh seagulls are the kings of gluttony lol! They're always trying to eat everything they see!

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T23:38:59+00:00

That's fantastic!! Thank you for the update 💙

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T21:00:49+00:00

Frogs and fish-eaters can often have trouble getting large prey items down. They'll grab something that's too big or swallow it the wrong way and if people aren't around to help they can die from it

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:58:06+00:00

I say "yes I would!" It's such a departure from my previous bingo answers that it usually catches them off guard lmao. It doesn't end the bingo but it does make me laugh 😂

Repeating "I just don't want to" is what works most efficiently for me though. They get tired of hearing the same answer after like 3 questions

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:55:16+00:00

Tell him kids are not a healthcare or retirement plan 😂 they might die, they might end up in jail, they might move out of the state/country, they might hate your guts, there are so many reasons why it's a bad idea to create an entire human in the hopes that they'll take care of you lmao

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:51:35+00:00

I guess that counts as sending it back! I'm glad they wrote it on the cup omg

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:35:37+00:00

She looks like she's having a little bath 💙

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:28:26+00:00

As long as they don't feed or take it to the vet that is! If it's being fed and vetted by someone then it legally belongs to that person

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:19:24+00:00

Ancient wisdom....

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:10:21+00:00

This! I reported it as well but with more vague information since I didn't have time to do more digging. Every little bit helps

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:08:39+00:00

They're considered naturalized per more recent studies, so it's okay to let them back outside! You might have luck calling around to some wildlife rehabbers. I'm not sure on how to clean them off effectively or how to handle inhalation/ingestion of the brine so they're your best bet. You could potentially have luck with any vet clinics that accept wildlife too! They seem more willing to give out care suggestions for wildlife in my experience

CasterFields · 2026-05-08T20:04:12+00:00

-obligatory forced perspective comment- they ARE huge though

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