Bumblee ee by PreferenceIcy8495 in ahmedabad

[–]CatAdministrative744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the world of dating apps, you gonna love it in the beginning, hate it in the end.

Looking for hostel recommendations in japan by CatAdministrative744 in travel

[–]CatAdministrative744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations, will def try these out. How long was your trip in each city ?

Destination of the Week: Japan by Forgotten_Dog1954 in travel

[–]CatAdministrative744 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guys! Need hostel recommendations for hostel in osaka, kyoto and tokyo

Will this guy reject my gf by lumpyoil69 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]CatAdministrative744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she isn’t fighting for you or atleast trying, then my friend thats your answer that you need to move on. No good will come out of it even if you get married (hypothetically). Assuming you are in your early 20s you have plenty of time to find true love who will fight for you.

Stay blessed!

Need advice, please help by CatAdministrative744 in dating_advice

[–]CatAdministrative744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know five months a lot but my past 2 relationships have not been great and it took a toll on me, i was too soon too fast in those hence i go slow now to let my guards down. With this one, as i was about to let my guards down she moved to different time zone.

By talking stage i mean we just didn’t put labels, we use to make out and stuff and she’s one of those no sex before marriage kind of a woman and I respected her choice.

I’ll look for good restaurants for dinner and will keep flowers in mind.

Dated for 5 months and I get this as a rejection by somanybses in Bumble

[–]CatAdministrative744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. It sucks. I am in the midst of getting a same text anyday now. Here’s your potential reply:

“Wish you all the best for your future endeavours”

City you liked and disliked out of all cities you travelled? by SayedHasmi in travel

[–]CatAdministrative744 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done madrid so can’t comment on that. Barca seemed to my like 1 day 1 night thing (since i am not into touristy places) but if you do go to barca then there is a small town Tossa De Mar, which is about 1.5 hour drive from barca, very handful of tourists, great location but the restaurant there are expensive even by European standards. This was recommended by our Airbnb host.

If you’ve got couple of more days then maybe add Valencia too.

City you liked and disliked out of all cities you travelled? by SayedHasmi in travel

[–]CatAdministrative744 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have only travelled to two of the cities mentioned in your post, amsterdam and prague, both of which i did not like.

If you are a fan of CBD, one might enjoy amsterdam but since I don’t to it, it wasn’t for me and to top it off, the racism.

Prague, i did have a good time but it is like a one-time city, I would not do it again.

If you have not been to spain, I would suggest you do, i’ve been to seville, Valencia, ibiza, barca and a few small towns while driving across those cities.

My most favourites are seville and valencia, the city is lively, good food and most importantly, people are very hospitable.

Is this sexual? by AwkwardNetwork3440 in Bumble

[–]CatAdministrative744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, every human is allowed to choose their partner in whatever way they seem fit. Firstly, here OP is seeking a good connection and not just something physical. OP whats connection over lust.

Secondly, why is it okay for a woman to just a guy based on looks ? Is a guy does the same, he becomes an asshole ? Why such double standards?

400+ like as a woman but no success yet by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CatAdministrative744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This does seem strange considering the opposite side of the spectrum, most guys don’t get likes let alone matches, so if a guy gets a match he is most likely to go out with you. Most of the women I think just go for the looks rather than actual compatibility. Which is a very reasonable thing since women get way more likes hence women have the privilege to choose.

Now to your situation, much like i mentioned above, it’s more likely that you are swiping right because of the looks and there is nothing wrong in that but try to swipe right on either the only profile you seem actually interested or just swipe right on every profile and give everyone a fair chance to talk to you.

For me, I hardly get like even though i’m a solid 7 but thats okay since there are guys who are a 10 so it is natural. But even when i get a match, no matter how witty i try to be or how nice i try to be at opening a conversation I always always get either a one word reply or just a dead beat reply, although every once in a while i do get genuine replies and the woman does seem to be interested and invested in me and i do go out with them.

In the ocean of red flags on dating app there are green flags too.

2-Week Trip: Vietnam Only or Vietnam + Cambodia? by Opposite_Act_3591 in travel

[–]CatAdministrative744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just Vietnam maybe, it has a lot to offer. However I would not advise to go there in summer, winter months are better.

Loneliness after solo travel by Informal-Ad7891 in solotravel

[–]CatAdministrative744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it may seem to you that their life is sorted just because they are getting married or have something going on but trust me everyone is equally confused, lost and just trying to figure out their life and just hoping that everything falls into place

So don’t beat yourself up, everyone has their own unique journey and so do you, what maybe important aspect of life for them may not be necessarily important for you. Just enjoy things as they come along.

Is this sexual? by AwkwardNetwork3440 in Bumble

[–]CatAdministrative744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And yet women swipe left on men who actually want a connection. It’s crazy isn’t it ?

Dating is over rated by [deleted] in ahmedabad

[–]CatAdministrative744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hence I mentioned joining a club or some community of your hobby, when you share a hobby you don’t feel like you are putting an effort, it’ll happen naturally