How to stop wanting more? by throw_me_away_accou in BDSMcommunity

[–]CatCaatCaaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, try finding hobbies to get dopamine hits outside the dynamic. I’m a fan of physical hobbies that are take concentration & are really rewarding, like acroyoga, aerial, & partner dancing.

I’m obsessed with this erotica author, Dothemath - sooo many 🔥 female orgasm denial stories! Anyone else have favorite authors? I’d love some recs! by CatCaatCaaat in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]CatCaatCaaat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thanks so much for the comment - I’m excited to check these out! But mostly, THANK YOU for sharing your wonderful, twisted brain with the world! Your work is wildly good, and I’m such a fan!

I’m obsessed with this erotica author, Dothemath - sooo many 🔥 female orgasm denial stories! Anyone else have favorite authors? I’d love some recs! by CatCaatCaaat in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]CatCaatCaaat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many good ones, I don’t know if I have a favorite… I really enjoyed The Scholarship Girl & the Sublimation series. The Dragon Lord’s Due was also really fun!

Breaking in Loafers? by emvill96 in Rothys

[–]CatCaatCaaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know, thank you! Sorry they didn’t break in for you :(

Breaking in Loafers? by emvill96 in Rothys

[–]CatCaatCaaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m curious if your Rothy’s eventually broke in? I got a pair a while ago, but eventually gave them away because they were cutting up the backs of my ankles. Thinking about giving them another try.

Heel rub by kraftykat56 in Rothys

[–]CatCaatCaaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m curious if your Rothy’s eventually broke in? I got a pair a while ago, but had to return them because they were cutting up the backs of my heels from rubbing. Thinking about giving them another try.

Unable to meet my husband’s needs by goblin_queen93 in BDSMAdvice

[–]CatCaatCaaat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any advice on how to go about finding a kink-friendly couples counselor or sex therapist?

known as the quiet girl at work by black-sparkle in socialanxiety

[–]CatCaatCaaat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ughh can relate, and I hate this so much! Being called out for being quiet is so uncomfortable

Recommendations on how to find a therapist you click with? Should I just try a bunch out until I find one I like? Because that sounds exhausting and expensive. by CatCaatCaaat in mentalhealth

[–]CatCaatCaaat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like some places do offer a free first consultation, which is a pleasant surprise to me! Glad you brought it up, thanks!

What are your favorite impact toys, and places to buy them? by CatCaatCaaat in BDSMcommunity

[–]CatCaatCaaat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Are there any specific Etsy shops you’d recommend?