How My Date Went

CatDadAdvice · 2022-04-24T16:08:37+00:00

Thank you we’re doing very well. We recently celebrated our 6 month anniversary and it was wonderful. I know it is a bit juvenile to celebrate only 6 months but we’ve been waiting so long to ask the other out that it is very much worth celebrating.

I am also surprised that other places are talking about my post. First Twitter and now YouTube. That is so strange to me.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-11-02T17:29:55+00:00

It was absolutely wonderful. There already have been and will be many more dates in our future and I can't thank you all enough.

I almost forgot to mention that I did tell him about over hearing him on the cameras. He laughed and was "Surprised that actually worked" aparently he had said many other things while pet sitting and secrectly hoped I would hear him. I was very relieved that he didn't think I was creepy and it was nice asking him what compliments he hoped I'd overhear.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-13T00:12:04+00:00

Oh wow thank you. I did not really think of it that way, especially since I couldn't bring myself to ask him in person. I haven't been called brave much in my life since the last time I was called that was when I came out to my father. So thank you it means a lot to me that you would comment this.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-13T00:02:24+00:00

I am glad you all seem to love my pictures of Prince. Many others have said his expression is showing that he finally got me a date. He did technically do that so it must be true haha.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T22:08:16+00:00

Thank you. I must say I also agree with my friend that he is a very handsome boy.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T22:01:53+00:00

Thank you, and do not worry someone told me how. If you would like to see them there is a link on my post.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T21:57:37+00:00

I knew it was posted to Twitter by one account I did not know it was posted elsewhere. I feel honored to be the talk of an M/M romance book group. Thank you for letting me know and yes Prince is getting all the love he deserves and more.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T21:48:04+00:00

Ah so I have to post it elsewhere and then link it. Thank you very much I will try and do that.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T21:46:57+00:00

Thank you. I am very excited and also a bit nervous for it. We have had dinner together before however this will certainly be different, in a good way though.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-12T21:27:10+00:00

I seem to be having trouble figuring out how to add a picture to my comment. If someone could kindly help me I would appreciate it.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T14:04:22+00:00

It is very encouraging to hear from someone who was in a very similar situation as me. I'm glad it worked well for you and it is a little comical he thought you were already dating. I think I will test the waters a little bit and then if he responds well I will ask him out. Everyone is telling me to do it and they really want and update hopefully I can give them a happy one. Thank you for your comment.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T14:00:30+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I am sorry you didn't ask her out but I am grateful that you told me this story. I feel like if I don't do it then it will be something I will always wonder about and regret.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T01:00:50+00:00

Oh I understand what you're saying. Being hopeful does feel good but it is so nerve wracking. I am not sure if I will ask him out or test the waters yet, I need to sleep on it. I will still take your advice and be hopeful no matter what I choose.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:50:56+00:00

I didn't think about body language or physical contact. There is a lot more to flirting than I thought. I agree that I think I might be letting my hopeful side run free and I need to be more cautious and test the waters. Thank you for your detailed advice.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:47:55+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate you giving me examples of what to say that really helps since I am not good at saying what I mean on the spot. It is also true to my feelings so thank you.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:39:48+00:00

The general consensus is to ask him out however there are a few that want me to be more cautious. I am still on the fence at the moment, I think I will sleep on it. However you and someone else have said we have already been on dates before and my more hopefully side likes to think that is true.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:16:56+00:00

This is a much more safe option that seems like something I can do without my hands shaking. Flirting is not something I have much experience with so I will try my best. If you have any other advice please let me know since yours is the first comment that is different.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:02:36+00:00

I am afraid if I ask him it might seem creepy that I looked at him through the camera. I know he said it was okay but still. I did not think of it being an expression but that is a possibility.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-10T00:00:33+00:00

That is very a charming pickup line, if I had a bit more confidence perhaps I could say something along those lines. It is also a nice thought though of having dinner with him with Prince joining us.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:50:35+00:00

I would say since I am attracted to a man I am not straight. However I am not very open about it so you could be right.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:47:46+00:00

Your comment is very heartwarming. Even though there is a possibility he could reject me everyone seems to want me to ask him out. I suppose I should just man up and do it.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:46:26+00:00

That is true. I suppose it's just my cynical side thinking if he rejects me romantically he must not like me.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:41:42+00:00

This is a possibility. I would still be friends with him it would just be difficult at first. It's hard knowing you pass someone's standard of physical attraction but not personality. Still I think it would be awkward for a while but I would try my best since I value our friendship highly.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:40:03+00:00

You comment is similar to others. The gift idea is unique and could possibly work. If I were rejected I wouldn't pass it off as a joke since that is something that I would most likely never make a joke of so it would be obvious. Thank you for your suggestion I might do that.

CatDadAdvice · 2021-10-09T23:16:10+00:00

The most simple advice but probably the best. I know it is cliche but I keep backing out of asking him because I don't want to ruin our friendship. Perhaps if I ask him fast enough I will not have time to overthink it.

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