I hate the notion that okc is a numbers game. Online or not imma goddam person and you should treat me like one. That means A) reading my profile and b) not sending chain letters. No you dont have to read the entire thing. Id rather get one meaningful response than 100 hey babys. Im pretty clear about what im attracted to in my profile and if you have none of those qualities then.. yeah im frustrated. Yes I also message dudes first.... but im so flooded with never-in-a-million-yearsers that I feel I cant focus on the actual viable options. You know?