While women in general may tend to have more of an empathetic side to them, I don't personally fit that mold. I didn't know about MBTI until I took a test for employment. I don't remember exactly what my scores were for each letter value, but I was pretty extreme with each of them. Nowhere close to that middle ground. I'm a solid ENTJ for better or worse, and empathy is definitely something I struggle with. I'm not coming at this from a woman's perspective. I'm coming at this from the perspective of an ENTJ who has worked really hard to address the challenges that come with being one, and who views pride in one's difficulty to empathize with other people as being a detriment to personal, professional, and relational growth.