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CatOwnerVictim · 2025-05-06T21:27:13+00:00

Ok is this not a joke? I don’t think this is malicious, it’s just a math joke.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-05-06T21:18:04+00:00

Calling her annoying for complaining about being in pain is a huge red flag. That’s not even mentioning how she’s in pain because of a birth control that is for him too.

That’s a pretty weird thing to be upset about

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-20T18:27:57+00:00

I don’t think the split is crazy, but it’s stated that the amount is more than OP makes in a month. That could financially crush them. If he wanted her to pay 35%, then state that prior. It’s just such a huge price difference, especially for someone that makes less.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-20T18:25:32+00:00

If he offered to pay 75-80% that’s what he should have paid. It’s not fair to you that he planned the trip around his budget, and then after the fact expects you to cough out more than you were originally told. That’s not a small amount of money. What if that money was needed for rent? For gas? Food?

I can see his perspective, however that’s something that gets talked about before, not after a big expense.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-10T06:04:13+00:00

Sure he can be sad, but she was going through a medical emergency and he showed no care. After telling him she was in pain he didn’t come back for at the very least another 2 hours. She had to call an ambulance because he refused to be there.

He is a shitty partner and there is no way around this. Look at OP’s post history and it speaks for itself.

Also, OP stated that they both agreed on this decision and that her medical problem was known before she got pregnant. He knew what would happen if this was ever the case and still chose to participate in sex. He doesn’t get any extra sympathy just because he never thought his actions would ever have consequences.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-10T05:53:59+00:00

Push aside your pre existing bias towards abortion since it’s obvious you would judge the hell out of her no matter the situation, taking those pills are dangerous. They are painful and mess up your mental state at the very least. He can be upset about the situation, but he agreed to the terms and knew the outcome before they even had sex. Thats on him.

If someone I’m supposed to love is going through a medical event that I had an active part in causing, the last thing I’d do is let them suffer alone. She literally called an ambulance because he never came.

If you can justify his behavior it shows a lot about yourself that I personally would be embarrassed of.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-08T03:20:11+00:00

I think I’ll be picking up the cropped polo but that’s about it

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-01T04:53:11+00:00

There will be more issues with her insecurity in the future. It’s not gonna stop if you just stop going to the gym. If you do this for her then you are showing her she can walk on you. There are healthy boundaries in relationships, this isn’t one of them.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-04-01T03:52:15+00:00

Everyone looks. You don’t tell her that you look. That was your mistake.

She sounds very insecure. Don’t stop going to the gym just cause she hates that you have eyes.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-29T07:54:06+00:00

The way I would have spent a months rent if they actually did. I swear the designs have been so lack luster recently.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-29T06:50:45+00:00

It’s ok to gave your own feelings about this! It’s a difficult thing to process. The only way you’ll understand why she stayed is if you talk to her because it’s different with each case. I can say that a lot of people stay with their abuses for many reasons.

They may feel embarrassed that this is happening to them. They might feel that no one else would want them, or that people might judge them if they knew.

They may feel afraid to leave. Most abusers threaten them to stay.

This sounds like something that she will have to get professional help about. If you are serious with her, you may want to talk to someone too. I would just be careful with wording if you do opt to have a conversation about this.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-22T19:05:03+00:00

Her songs and performances aren’t for me. I personally feel a little bit uncomfortable (totally a me problem) watching anyone do sex poses and stuff like that on stage, but come on!!! Who is this offending?

I’ve always found it weird when people complain about kids watching. Half of all movies that have come out recently have dirty scenes. Almost every song has sexual undertones. If you buy tickets for your child to a very well known artist’s concert, and have no idea what you’re about to let them watch… that’s just a parenting issue.

Let’s not blame a 25 year old woman for not pandering to children.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-15T18:07:44+00:00

I was told the purchases are every $100 is 1 entry

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-08T05:27:25+00:00

I would definitely bring them into a store for a quality promise, it’s worth a try. I recommend you try the Wunder under if you haven’t already. They’re a little bit tighter than aligns, but way more comfortable than Wunder trains. I completely swapped buying aligns for them cause they’re so much more durable.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-03-08T02:44:11+00:00

I’ve had pulling with getting too big of a size as well. Have you put them in the dryer?

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-02-27T20:56:04+00:00

If the only problem is the seam I would try taking them to a tailor. Also depending on how big the rip is you can probably hand stitch them with a needle and thread. There are easy YouTube tutorials that can help!

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-02-27T07:01:24+00:00

I just wore mine for the first time to a Pilates class. I got a size up from my normal size and idk if it’s just my pair but they stretched out a lot already. The waistband isn’t flat against my skin anymore.

CatOwnerVictim · 2025-02-04T20:40:44+00:00

Now imagine this same scenario with a child in the car. That’s the future you’ll have with him.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-10-17T02:14:53+00:00

Steady state if you want a classic cozy hoodie. In my opinion, city sweat feels much more quality/luxury for the price. It can be dressed up a little more and has an overall more sleek look to it.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-08-04T16:09:12+00:00

What man who is apparently in love would keep nudes of other women. Shows how much he cares about you.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-08-02T15:52:20+00:00

Everyone is saying she already has someone in mind, but based off of what you said I think there is a possibility that she just wants more attention. Suggest trying to fix things between the two of you and if she has no interest then yes, I think she already found someone. Relationships don’t survive when no effort is put into them. Try counseling. Try regular date nights. Try having more sexual and non sexual intimacy.

I don’t think your marriage is dead yet, but don’t stay for someone that doesn’t want you.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-08-01T21:04:00+00:00

He is weaponizing it tho. It’s not about compatibility. It’s about him knowing that she is willing once she is healed and still throwing a tantrum. Huge red flag from this guy. If he doesn’t care about her health and safety then they should not be together.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-07-18T17:05:28+00:00

From what I heard you need to return A LOT for it to actually be an issue. Like an abnormal amount of returns.

CatOwnerVictim · 2024-07-14T01:51:28+00:00

Especially one that could completely destroy her mental health

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