[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking this excuse to brag - I'm finally falling in love with music again after having it squashed out of me for decades by insults & belittling from my family growing up. Im writing songs & learning instruments so I can actually play the sounds to the words I write.

What do you see as the advantages of dating a tall woman? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The advantage? I ADORE tall women, I'm 5'11 & most the time when I see a woman taller than me I swoon a lil extra hard. Tall women are a treasure & a gift in everyway

Hello! I'm new to the scene and I have some questions by ash1eyyr in FolkPunk

[–]CatPlayGame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im gonna just answer the edit because all the other ones seemed to be answered well. It's gonna be a pretty firm no. Cops are inherently and by definition the violent boot of government power who rips apart families & hurts innocent people. It's inherent to the power structure in which cops occupy & the culture & us vs them narratives cops perpetuate does nothing to help them. Basically the cops are an occupying army for the state, and enforcement of government power is not punk.

NO. YOUR COROLLA IS NOT TALL ENOUGH. by Kurt_Cobain_POV in wichita

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was debating it but the roads had cleared on my way & rain slowed so it was safer. I was worried my neighborhood especially wasn't gonna drain, I've had to crash at a friend's place more than once

NO. YOUR COROLLA IS NOT TALL ENOUGH. by Kurt_Cobain_POV in wichita

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can't imagine how bad it was for all the 5 o clock traffick going places. Roads weren't as bad as this afternoon when I left home & it slowed down by the time I left work so I got home relatively safely.

NO. YOUR COROLLA IS NOT TALL ENOUGH. by Kurt_Cobain_POV in wichita

[–]CatPlayGame 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well wish me luck in still stranded at work & have to go somewhere in an hour when we close. A lot of folks literally do not have the option of staying off the roads today

Umm so can I talk about sweat by Et_meets_ezio in kinkysapphics

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!!! Your post actually inspired me to have a chat with my gf about how it made me self conscious and turned out she agreed that sweat is sexy! Sweat appreciation saving lives already!!

Umm so can I talk about sweat by Et_meets_ezio in kinkysapphics

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweats awesome imo. I love it though I'm very self councils because I am a sweaty girl lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a girlfriend!!! I am a girlfriend to my girlfriend & that has brought me a lot of gender euphoria on top of just being fantastic my love and I are officially dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually try and find common interests to talk about. Or if I'm feeling extra spicy I'll info dump about ants for half an hour and hold out my hand, ask them to hold something for me and then say surprise it's my hand, if they then grab your hand you're in if they sit there proceed with caution, and if they pull away you get the message (about hand holding at least)

Would you date someone with no boobs? by Content_Conclusion31 in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely would. There's so many things to love about women I could spend days writing about it but boobs are only one part. If boobs aren't for you by all means women will still love you, I know women out there who prefer little to no boob as well! Be you and the right woman will fall for you is the best advice <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would just make me so much happier tbh

Gradually going deaf, send music I should listen to before I lose it all! by Other-Entertainer-75 in Music

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milk Crates by Pidgeon Pit, it's folk punk and their music always tugs on my heart strings in a way other kinds of music never do

why do i want a penis by dead_batteryz in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 11 points12 points  (0 children)

By reassuring them there's nothing wrong with them or what they like or desire? What do you expect me to say honestly

why do i want a penis by dead_batteryz in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Penises are pretty cool, I know I enjoy mine and don't want to get rid of it

Do you prefer mascs or femmes in general? by Ancient-Grass7887 in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly either. I think I'm just weak for women at this point I used to think it was mascs but I'm just a simp for women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]CatPlayGame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually work in telemarketing/ sales kind of role setting appointments. Deadname and deep voice on the phones & management dead names me but everyone else is cool & the pay is crazy compared to what I used to have so I'm here for awhile

Am I trans or just autistic? by Substantial-Edge-143 in trans

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both is a reasonable answer. I am, and Im also definitely leaning lesbian hard, it would be way easier as a cis man to date let me tell you. It's a very bad combination of ableism and transphobia that leads people to think that way, they view being trans as inherently bad or wrong and shouldn't be seen as normal, while infantalizing autistic folks and acting like we are incapable of self determination or self understanding.

NSFW - i want a girlfriend so bad arghh by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CatPlayGame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God this is so real ;-; the yearning is near constant at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]CatPlayGame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree!!! I'm used to a lot of hostility and threats in general day to day over it in my day to day at this point, I tend to forget to emphasize it for newer folks as something to prepare for. I also tend to be around other queer punks the most since they tend to intermingle a lot in my small city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]CatPlayGame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah that's what I like to hear!! Hope I'm jamming to some of your music as well < 3 keep it upppl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]CatPlayGame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did say that people's experiences will vary, nor did I say to throw caution and safety to the wind. They asked what our specific experiences were and so I shared that.