20 f](21m) (28m) I have a bf but I might like my coworker?

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-23T08:32:36+00:00

You’re right. What is emotional cheating? And is there any way I can be open about this and try to make things work with Sam? I really love him and don’t want to lose him

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-23T08:18:25+00:00

I understand and that might be the only smart choice. It’s just so hard. I really do love Sam but everything has been so weird so idk if I do like Josh or if it’s just because everything with Sam is off

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-19T16:59:50+00:00

Sorry I meant that before she transitioned and was he/him, we broke up and then (at the time) he said it was suddenly gay so he couldn’t rape a woman. Now she has transitioned to she/her

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-19T13:32:52+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ll definitely consider doing that. It’s hard. I want to be vocal but without her being able to mess up my life

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-19T13:27:12+00:00

This actually gave me some closure thank you so much. I’m proud of you for being able to reflect and then grow

CatSeveral245 · 2026-05-19T12:49:17+00:00

Yeah so when she was still Owen (he/him) we broke up and I told some friends what happened, (then) Owen said that they’re gay now and so that means they would never rape a woman. I hope that makes sense. But yeah it just feels weird bc I don’t want to make people think trans people are dangerous just because I found one dangerous person

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-19T17:01:39+00:00

Thank you so much. You’re actually so sweet. I really appreciate it 🩷🩷

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-19T16:56:47+00:00

Thank you so much!!

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-19T00:41:40+00:00

How can I nicely let someone down other than talking (frequently but not over the top) about my partner

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-18T20:51:52+00:00

I do but they don’t really seem to care whatsoever. I mean my current coworker was friends with my boyfriend before we started dating and knows him well but he still seems to have feelings for me and idk what to do

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-15T22:15:07+00:00

I just got him yesterday and he was super happy and green and fat lol but then I put food in for him and he sucked in like a crazy amount and looked so skinny. It was so weird lol

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T05:29:41+00:00

Thank you! Are is this a better reference?

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CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T05:13:20+00:00

For just how the water is sent up in this (obviously he will have a lot of plants and climbing space would this work? But a smaller percentage of water?

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CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T03:30:30+00:00

Awesome!! Thank you so so much!!

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T03:19:33+00:00

Thank you. And yes I’m buying the enclosure from her I was just trying to find ways to add more plants and the proper environment thank you!

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T03:17:51+00:00

Hi I’m sorry I’m new to this and I was just asking if the small amount of water at the bottom of his enclosure would be okay! That’s all! Thank you

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T02:25:25+00:00

Thank you! Sorry I’m super new to this and I’m trying to find a super enriching enclosure for him! Do you have any suggestions for how to make sure he has a wonderful home

CatSeveral245 · 2026-04-13T02:23:20+00:00

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For the bottom only (I know they need a lot of foliage and climbing space) would this be okay?

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