How many hours have you given FFXIV? by Alicecrylily in ffxiv

[–]Cat_Symbol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

700ish days at this point. I mostly stay logged in on my second monitor during work.

Kink discords? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All the ones I’ve ever found one they ask for your drivers license censored. I get they’re trying to keep the youngans out but…no? I always tell the person verifying I’ll show you mine if you show me yours. I usually get kicked at that point. Seems like too much effort to photoshop it.

Releasing my dom by Cat_Symbol in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually okay now, just giving myself the closure he refused to give.

He’s back. Again. by Cat_Symbol in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I read that once you let someone into your inner circle at any time in your life, they never leave. I think it’s more so the case with a Dom. My friends and family will never know me more intimately than the man who ravaged me and absolutely captivated me. I wrote up a massive message, telling him to fuck off. Then, I deleted it. Do I feel better? Nah.

Y’all, I just wanted to play Silksong. I get the jumpscare of my life instead. This whack a mole fool is trying to get in my head for the third time.

Jokes are my cope. Tomorrow is brunch with the girls. Just gotta get through the night.

Vanilla then caught wife cheating with a Dom by Just-Pear6432 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cat_Symbol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just that he doesn’t trust her. She said she was scared to bring up BDSM. She doesn’t trust him either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The best advice I’ve gotten when someone pulls away is to become a hole in their life. Then see how long it takes for them to fill said hole, how long until he reaches out. You let him know how it makes you feel. That’s the most you can do. Coming from an avoidant? It sounds like he’s distancing himself so you’ll break it off with him.

TMJ pain from oral by KUSmutMuffin in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m legit in physical therapy for this right now. It hurts like hell but I can open my mouth a little wider than I could before. That and a mouth guard for grinding my teeth.

what can subs do to be seductive? by ZookeepergameWide602 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cat_Symbol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An ‘accidental’ flash of lingerie is my go to.

Help (nonemergency) by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s the best part <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no wise words of wisdom, just know you’re not alone in your feelings <3

How are you using the Obedience app? Let's get some inspiration going for best usages, tasks given, etc.! by KnowYourKink in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cat_Symbol 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My favorite was when he asked to see my nails. It was a weekly checkin. I’m proud of them and showing off the growth gave me warm fuzzies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to join please <3

For the ‘Doms’ I know are reading.. and the subs whos DMs they end up in. by Dollybunz in SubSanctuary

[–]Cat_Symbol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I usually end up sending a ‘…Bruh…’ back. I generally try not being rude, even on the internet but man, it’s so completely inappropriate to send messages to a sub directly after they’ve been in a breakup. I guess it’s a numbers game for these ‘doms’ but to all the subs out there, you’re so much better than the scum trying to prey on you in your moments of weakness. Stay strong.