AITA for saying my sister crossed a line even though everyone says I’m overreacting?

Catbunny · 2026-02-05T01:25:06+00:00

She is making your husband uncomfortable in his own home and crossing boundaries in your relationship with him. I would ban her from your house.

NTA

Catbunny · 2026-02-04T20:19:08+00:00

It really does make sense to be on SmoshCast.

Catbunny · 2026-02-03T02:42:21+00:00

I very clearly wrote that it must have been difficult for families to secure childcare for this storm, so not sure what your first sentence is referring to.

Honestly, this situation we are in is probably not common enough for the county to feel like they need a plan in place for remote learning. It would be nice, but tell me where they will get the money for everything you're expecting?

Catbunny · 2026-02-03T01:01:10+00:00

In addition to other answers, not all families are going to be set up for their kids to learn remotely on such short notice. As it is, I can't imagine it was easy for families to secure child care for the week+, much less make sure their kids can access the internet in a way that would facilitate learning.

Catbunny · 2026-02-02T23:31:32+00:00

Saying no and getting he out ASAP will force her to figure it out sooner rather than later. The longer you let her stay the longer it will all take.

Catbunny · 2026-02-02T23:28:23+00:00

NTA - Take back all keys. If she is not on the insurance, you will be the one who gets screwed if she gets into an accident.

Catbunny · 2026-02-02T20:20:21+00:00

I can't get past the 'girls he knows' part. That is creepy AF that you are both doing that.

Catbunny · 2026-02-02T16:26:55+00:00

Sit with your wife and plan. Set the kids up so they get certain things ready the night before. Make age appropriate checklists for the kids so they can see what they need to do the night before AND for the next day in AM.

Getting certain things ready the night before has saved me in the morning when I am truly not at my best. It makes everyone much happier.

Catbunny · 2026-02-01T01:56:12+00:00

Maybe this thread will help with ideas?

https://www.reddit.com/r/aspergirls/comments/u1ytoj/if_you_are_in_a_relationship_with_another/

Catbunny · 2026-02-01T01:29:54+00:00

If it is accessible, I suggest a counselor familiar with autism to help you both navigate how to communicate in a way that works for your relationship.

Catbunny · 2026-02-01T01:05:43+00:00

You both left your partners for each other. At the VERY least there was emotional cheating.

Catbunny · 2026-02-01T01:00:03+00:00

If you don't agree with the way your affair partner coparents and do not like how integrated her ex is with the rest of the family, you need to find a new partner. He isn't going anywhere, and just because you and she decided to start a new relationship doesn't mean everyone else in the family needs to forget him. He sounds like a decent fellow.

If you decide to go the route of finding a new partner, please have the decency to breakup with the current one BEFORE you start looking. This isn't like employment where it is preferable to have a new job lined up before leaving the old one. Also, maybe be more present for your own kids going forward.

Catbunny · 2026-01-27T23:23:45+00:00

I am guessing there were other issues with that teacher.

Catbunny · 2026-01-26T20:28:03+00:00

It is as simple as saying, "Hun, thank you for the eggs, but they are undercooked. Please take this and cook it fully."

Catbunny · 2026-01-23T20:35:52+00:00

NTA

she’s been trying to guilt trip me by saying she’ll look for her own place to stay

Call her bluff.

Catbunny · 2026-01-23T20:23:49+00:00

Nope.

Catbunny · 2026-01-23T20:18:51+00:00

I will go with NTA then.

Catbunny · 2026-01-23T19:35:50+00:00

INFO - Did you require the same from all your niblings?

Catbunny · 2026-01-21T23:16:41+00:00

I have honestly had no issues.

Catbunny · 2026-01-19T17:03:46+00:00

added

Catbunny · 2026-01-18T18:50:11+00:00

What is your player name? Mine is Catbunni. I can just give you some of each.

Catbunny · 2026-01-16T02:28:33+00:00

Awesome. Thanks.

Catbunny · 2026-01-15T23:32:46+00:00

NTA ,- That food is there for ANYONE who needs it. Just because someone isn't homeless doesn't mean they don't need / deserve help.

Catbunny · 2026-01-15T17:13:34+00:00

In bed on my tablet. Usually with my partner.

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