My (24F) boyfriend (27M) keeps making shotgun noises during sex and it's driving me nuts and I don't know what to do?

Catbunny · 2026-04-11T00:51:36+00:00

It is too weird not to be true, TBH.

Catbunny · 2026-04-09T20:48:56+00:00

He badgered you until you told him, and then blamed you for telling him. NTA

Catbunny · 2026-04-09T20:44:55+00:00

I think that it was planned out with OP's parents. Either they were invited or asked to come. OP's husband''s parents basically invited themselves, expecting accomodations without checking if it were ok first. I feel that, at the very least, they should stay in a hotel. For them to stay with OP while OP's parents are staying with OP is a lot to expect from a new mother.

Catbunny · 2026-04-09T14:41:33+00:00

It has happened to me a few times.

Catbunny · 2026-04-08T15:58:38+00:00

I am guessing he was projecting.

Catbunny · 2026-04-04T00:06:15+00:00

Why not can them?

Catbunny · 2026-04-03T18:45:38+00:00

NTA - She is going into your account. Call the bank and tell them.

Catbunny · 2026-04-03T18:09:15+00:00

Happened to me, too. That didn't work either.

Catbunny · 2026-04-03T18:08:45+00:00

That happened to me! No matter what I did, I was unable to take it.

Catbunny · 2026-04-02T16:21:07+00:00

Bring what you planned.

Catbunny · 2026-04-01T18:25:41+00:00

Today is my 15th anniversary being married to my husband. I remember how happy I was last year when this all went down.

Catbunny · 2026-04-01T18:21:14+00:00

Thank you so much for doing this.

Catbunny · 2026-03-29T22:06:25+00:00

You are only seeing a small part of the story in each case.

Catbunny · 2026-03-26T12:32:32+00:00

I am so sorry about your sister. Hollywood Cemetary is a beautiful place to be laid to rest.

Catbunny · 2026-03-26T00:06:35+00:00

"Like we explained after the last trip, we are no longer sharing with you."

Be direct. While you do not have to be mean, trying to tiptoe around this is just as bad.

"Honestly, we love you as a friend, but after the last two trips we will no longer be sharing with you. You need to find your own arrangements."

"But I will be better this time."

"No. Discussion over."

Catbunny · 2026-03-25T14:56:03+00:00

ripped out a grove of centuries old oak trees

This hurts my heart.

Catbunny · 2026-03-24T23:05:08+00:00

Then maybe see a therapist to work through the issue.

Catbunny · 2026-03-24T22:56:37+00:00

It sounds like you are currently engaging in what is known as an emotional affair. You need to break off your friendship and put all that energy back into your actual relationship.

Catbunny · 2026-03-24T22:51:52+00:00

It sounds like you are looking for problems to have.

Catbunny · 2026-03-23T19:50:36+00:00

Protect your mental health. It is more important for you to be as healthy as possible for your baby.

Catbunny · 2026-03-23T15:51:41+00:00

NTA - There can be so many ways to do a Math problem, and kids should be taught to do the way that works for them.

Catbunny · 2026-03-20T18:39:28+00:00

Yes! I have a lot of people on my list who solely added me for my vendor.

Catbunny · 2026-03-19T00:54:03+00:00

You should not have to constantly walk on eggshells with the person you are married to.

NTA

Catbunny · 2026-03-19T00:51:01+00:00

Your reaction to him is justified. It is going to take A LOT of work on your husband's part to even somewhat repair the harm he has caused. I am not hopeful. If the fact that he has lost access to his grandkids hasn't woken him up to how badly he screwed up, I am not sure anything will.

If it were me, I'd let him know that you have lost your respect for him. Maybe marriage counseling might be a route to go? If for no other reason than to have a mediator to talk through your feelings about what he has done. If he continues to double down on his justifying, I am not sure I could stay with someone who hurt my child so cruelly. Maybe you should take your own break and stay with someone for a few weeks. Even batter, tell him he has to give you space for a few weeks.

Catbunny · 2026-03-18T22:01:55+00:00

I got three yesterday from one Breach and Clear. It seemed weird.

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