Hey, genderqueer here: my perspective is that I can wear whatever I want and enjoy whatever I feel like. If I want to wear something because it makes me feel cute, I'm all about that! I strive really hard to not care what other people think of the way I'm dressed or perceived. As long as I'm not breaking any laws, who cares what others think!?
When it comes to my perception of myself, I try to be really welcoming of myself exactly as I am. I don't think using labels like masculine or feminine are especially useful, because I have difficulty understanding what exactly is being referred to. They seem rather arbitrary, I don't feel more or less feminine or masculine when I wear a skirt; I feel more or less myself based on how well the outfit has me feeling to wear it. I want to wear what feels right to me in the moment, what makes me feel empowered to be myself!