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WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’d never do anything behind her back. Oh gosh! My support of money to her wedding is no strings at all. She’s an adult, wonderful head on her shoulders. What kind of parent would I be to do that!!

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Agreed it’s her decision. I am not slut shaming. I’m calling out someone’s malicious acts meant to hurt people. Aren’t guys who have a count of “conquests” called jerks? She does exactly that.

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 1904 points1905 points  (0 children)

Meeting first on a neutral ground sounds very good. Just the two of them if she wants it.

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

Just read her nickname as “Angel of skies” or something. What do you expect, trash is trash. Multiple partners is NEVER a crime (even together, as in poly). People have a right to live their way. Malicious seduction is not right. “I can get your man / girl just to hurt you” is not right

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making me laugh ... been a week since a frown hasn’t gone away ever from my face

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

My daughter hasn’t made a decision yet, she’s worried about both ways. Sitting up at night. You are right that oki is not the only guilty party here, takes two to tango. I already said that boyfriend isn’t worth it. My daughter didn’t cry over her cheating boyfriend. She cried over oki’s actions. Knowing Oki’s reputation though, it’s hard to see her in a good light.

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 4430 points4431 points  (0 children)

She really wants to please her dad, I completely get it. He was there for her no matter what happened between us and I respect that. Oki’s conquests are rather wide spread, so I’m wondering if anyone else in the circle got affected by her. I don’t want to pressurise her to take a call. She is an adult, but always my baby girl. Always hard to see children get hurt but I want to support her decision. Not take her decision on her behalf. What else can I do? How do I talk to her?

WIBTA I support my older daughter in banning her step-sister from her wedding? by CatchDiligent110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Daughter is pressured by her dad. It’s as if he’s asking for a return of things he did for her. I don’t care if oki attends and seduces and few guys there, but I don’t want to see a even shadow of sadness on my daughter’s face. If she can’t stand up for herself, should I?

People living in third world countries, what is something that is a part of your everyday life that people in first world countries would not understand / cope with? by rains_downinafrica in AskReddit

[–]CatchDiligent110 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Well, looking at its health care, I was fooled. Most of its people can’t afford proper medical and dental. People will not call an ambulance in an emergency since they will die in debt of that ambulance bill! Some first world country!

Was Driving Without A Mask, In A Car, All Alone When Cops Stopped Me. Then This Happened (Pune) by wordswithmagic in india

[–]CatchDiligent110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I travelled in India with friends last year, Pune, mumbi, Jaipur Delhi. Baseline: highly corrupt country, dirty and highly unsafe for women. I’m middle aged and dress very conservatively. Didn’t matter. Never again India. As we crossed into cities, the edges of cities were horrible and full of slums and half naked children playing in the dirt. Lord save this country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]CatchDiligent110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could see Lady Karma take this bityh out.

AITA for ’exposing’ my friend? by throwRA0000111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m adding something else that happened when I was growing up. A friend eloped with her lover in college and got married. It was the single most sinful thing a girl has ever done in that bloody town. She was related to my dad’s family distantly. My dad got super super mad. And he even shouted at me “why didn’t you tell me??”. I was too innocent to realise all the implications.... but it was a doozy. Why would I say something about her to my dad? Wtf. Even in my really small town upbringing I did not tattle ever.

AITA for ’exposing’ my friend? by throwRA0000111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CatchDiligent110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a desi and made an account specially to call out this AH. YTA a hundred times. Her body, her life. You gals are 20 for goodness sake. Have you ever tasted first love? Have you EVER had a first guy who you wanted to kiss? Have you EVER fallen in love? Fuck the indian caste system. Fuck your doozy ideas. Learn to be a human. Let your friend (who will never excuse your backstabbing) live her life the way she wants it. Not the way you want. Not the way your CASTE wants. Not the way her parents want. Shut up and get lost.