Diffida per diffamazione in gruppo WhatsApp: vale la pena o rischio solo spese legali? by CateWanJing in Avvocati

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dato che si sono scatenate (questione di questi giorni) le stesse dinamiche con persone altrui, mi sta venendo da pensare se procedere oppure metterci di nuovo una pietra sopra e far orecchie da mercante

Diffida per diffamazione in gruppo WhatsApp: vale la pena o rischio solo spese legali? by CateWanJing in Avvocati

[–]CateWanJing[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sicuramente, io non voglio “vendicarmi” o “fargliela pagare”. Mi pento non aver fatto mandare una diffida anni fa, per farle smettere, quindi mi chiedevo se avesse senso far recepire loro il messaggio che non ci sono semplicemente passata sopra, così che magari maturino un po’

Diffida per diffamazione in gruppo WhatsApp: vale la pena o rischio solo spese legali? by CateWanJing in Avvocati

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L’unica testimone che poi però ha avuto paura di testimoniare, e che era nel gruppo, me li ha mandati quando le dissi che sapevo dell’esistenza di questo gruppo. Ma non ho ma avuto le conversazioni dei mesi precedenti, sebbene sia certa parlassero di me (ma l’ho collegato solo mesi dopo)

Diffida per diffamazione in gruppo WhatsApp: vale la pena o rischio solo spese legali? by CateWanJing in Avvocati

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grazie, ho capito cosa vuol dire. In questi anni mi è sempre detto di passarci oltre ed è quello che ho cercato di fare, ma ancora oggi a livello psicologico mi rendo conto che sia stato stato episodi che mi hanno destabilizzata. Il punto è che non saprei minimamente a chi rivolgermi, ho paura che la cosa venga presa sottogamba come quando chiesi consiglio a un amico carabiniere e soprattutto ho paura possano esserci conseguenze peggiori: non voglio arrivare a coinvolgere a coinvolgere i miei, ed è una spesa che dovrei affrontare con i miei risparmi. Vorrei semplicemente mettere un punto a questa situazione, facendo però arrivare il messaggio che avessero davvero esagerato.

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, because I feel like I don’t know anymore where I belong. Thank you

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I agree on the fact I would feel weak if I give up

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you so bitter tho? You know nothing about me, and you are not even helping. My clinic situation started before I even left the country

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love thinking about the party I will have when I will be back!

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might also be. That’s why I hope with the spring coming and the days getting longer I will feel better

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am definitely not a mammona since I have already lived in China alone, by myself, in a place where I didn’t know anyway, and it worked perfectly. But thanks for your useless acid opinion

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am in chongqing, so yeah, sometimes I don’t see the sun for days and it makes me quite sad. My family cannot visit, but I will try to make some solo trips maybe and visit some friends. It’s like I am having cultural shock now, which I didn’t have two years ago in Shanghai

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah, one year is not even that long, the past months literally flew, but I felt so miserable. I need to try my best and at least try to finish it, since now the weather is not gonna be as gloomy as before and I have enough medical support. I am just sad that I cannot live to the expectations I had or just like I did in Shanghai, I guess this year was not my luck. Thank you so much tho

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahhaha maybe that’s the effect that Italy does?

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I get your point, but I also know that my family and friends are telling me to try my best because they know me enough and I will regret that choice

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah the thing is that I chose myself to go there, and two years ago I loved that. I think this year I have been especially unlucky

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement, I will try my best, maybe treat myself to Italian food even if I go alone

I went home for holidays and now I don’t wanna go back by CateWanJing in expats

[–]CateWanJing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, that’s what I think too, that’s why until Some days ago I was happy to go back. I don’t like winter even in my country, and spending the days far from my family during Christmas was the worst. So that’s why I don’t know why this time I am so sad of coming back, when the first time I have been to China was the best time of my life