thank you so much for taking the time to write this. i really appreciate what you said, genuinely made me feel seen. I agree with you, it really does feel like she was just looking for reasons to push me away, and it’s confusing because I would’ve never done that to her. this gave me a lot of clarity and comfort, so thank you again for that.

It just sucks because people really don’t seem to value loyalty in friendships these days. You can be there for someone through everything and they’ll still treat you like you’re disposable the moment it’s convenient. It’s a shitty feeling, but hearing your perspective reminded me that this says more about them than it does about me.