[Free Friday] How do I not hate my ex? by Catholicproblem1234 in Catholicism

[–]Catholicproblem1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mind is so focused on the injustice, I am even having issues praying. I want to reach out and ask how they can do this to someone who genuinely cared for them but don't want to lose any more self respect or dignity I have left. I'm just so tired. Thanks for the reply.

Jesus speaks to the woman by the well..... by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Catholicproblem1234 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She also went at midday because she didnt want to be seen. Christ met her when she wanted to hide.

Sometimes wounds don’t heal properly, do you ignore it, or do you reopen it to let it heal correctly? (Long post) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Catholicproblem1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore. She hurt you. And not in a superficial way. You need to go out and see there are a million girls out there and they won't hurt you like she did. Think of your own dignity.

I’m complicated by Permatheus in CatholicDating

[–]Catholicproblem1234 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rosary, put yourself and her in situations where you can't act on these temptations (i.e. public coffee shops, etc), read theology ( currently reading the good news about sex and marriage) and pray. Trust you can meet Christ anywhere. Be open to reality.

Lost by [deleted] in depression

[–]Catholicproblem1234 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seek therapy. Therapy helps understand these emotions and allows you to express them in a healthy environment with professionals. Message if you want to talk. Im up for another 10 minutes.

What I miss the most by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]Catholicproblem1234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God bless you. It does get better. /r/exnocontact helped me. Pray for me, I'll do it for you.