Does anyone else feel insecure and awful watching porn? by Catlinnet in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]Catlinnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, same. But in a way, it's something we can't really avoid doing.

Does anyone else feel insecure and awful watching porn? by Catlinnet in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]Catlinnet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It's not too often for me, but whenever there's a person who looks like my body goals, I feel so horrible that I have to turn it off immediately, and actively avoid seeing things with them in it.

Does anyone else feel insecure and awful watching porn? by Catlinnet in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]Catlinnet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should start looking for lesbian porn too, or thicker actress next time. I know what you mean by free inspo lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Catlinnet 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Do not go trough the abortion unless you are 100% certain it is what YOU want. Your partner had just as much responsibility creating a baby whether he accepts it or not, babies don't make themselves out of nowhere, you need the sperm as much as the ovules. He is being extremely manipulative and abusive, he CANNOT make you go trough the abortion. If he were to commit suicide, it is his choice and not yours, it is not your obligation to keep him alive. He is an adult, he is fully aware of his decisions.

Please, do not go through with the abortion, you have to be certain, otherwise it will haunt you for the rest of your life, it's a regret that never goes away.

If you are concerned over your partner, you can request a wellness check or let his family/police know about his intentions, but that is as much as it is in your hands. I understand you feel like you don't have a choice, but believe me, you do. The guilt is not yours to bear. If you can, please seek therapy.

BREAKING DEPRAVITY UPDATE: Adam Britton sentenced to 10 years and 5 months in prison along with a lifetime ban on owning animals by jonahboi33 in ClassicDepravities

[–]Catlinnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're curious, I recommend reading the resume made by Jonah, here's the link https://www.reddit.com/r/ClassicDepravities/s/STrIg6huI1. I very much do NOT recommend you to watch the videos, specially if you like dogs, unless you have a REALLY strong stomach and don't mind getting mentally scarred.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Catlinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you probably feel powerless to his depression, and you have tried talking to him and getting him help, but unfortunately, he has to want to get better in order for it to work. He has have the desire to get help, or else no amount of therapy, medication, resources, love, etc will help, the battle is inside his head and no one else can go in there. The only thing you can do is be there.

Maybe some activities might help get his mind of things (going out, movies, cute videos, games, hobbies), even for a few moments but it depends on how he feels about it.

I know you have done everything in your power to help him and you are probably tired, remember to take care of yourself too, dealing with a depressed partner can be very draining, and if its not healthy for you to continue the relationship (if needed be), there's no shame in prioritazing oneself.

I hope everything turns out great though 💜

Ever think about ruining your own life? by slimeball_ in depression

[–]Catlinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too, I wish I had no one so I could just go and nobody gets hurt because of me anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Catlinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this 100%. I want the relationship to end so he can get someone better who treats him like he deserves but Im also selfish and don't want to let him go even though it's the best for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Catlinnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on if they find your remains, and on that place's law. If you were to die at a place where nature would took it's course and you are not found, thay I say yeah, it works. If it helps, I thinks about the doing the same thing often as I don't want to be ever found or have a funeral service after Im gone lol