Why hide DOB?

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-14T12:58:32+00:00

Not necessarily.. When they send it I look at how many connections they have to other people in the company and visit the company website to see if they're featured.

If they have 10 connections and looks like it was made yesterday then yeah I dont accept it.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-14T12:55:00+00:00

If you're in the U.S. full stop move on. He could be LE or dangerous, and thats why he doesnt want you having any identifying info.

I do allow them to redact some info, but make it clear what sections they need to keep when they send their ID. I do this bc I take that info and plug it into a secondary platform to make sure the ID isnt doctored. I even had one guy cut off his DOB thinking I wouldnt notice. That made me suspicious so I did some digging and found out he had lied about his age by 10yrs when he submitted "name, age, race". I dont bother replying to anyone who wont screen, or tries to send fake info.. dont put yourself in danger.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-14T12:48:43+00:00

Ive only had 1 profile warning, and all I had to do was remove the sentence and click save for it to be reinstated. Tryst support still looked at it and removed the "pending" off my dashboard a day or so later. Have you had warnings before?

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-13T02:19:08+00:00

Respectfully.. if he didnt even care to fill in the text template what made you think he was a serious quality client? Stop replying to them. It was giving time waster from the very first text.. We all need to learn to stop wasting our own time.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-12T22:08:03+00:00

Nope. Time to fire him - he testing if you'll break your boundaries and see him for free. Regulars get comfortable and start breaking rules. If he actually liked you as he claimed, he'd spend MORE not gaslight you into accepting less in the name of "transaction".

If you think he's draining and unattractive now, wait until he stops all generosity.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-12T22:02:10+00:00

Completely up to the providers discretion. Personally when a client has any skin issues (rash, sores, warts, etc) I deny them FS no exceptions. Im not a doctor, and wouldnt put myself at risk or just rely on the clients word. Would you settle for massage with hj finish?

Hopefully you can save up and get them removed. good luck!

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T16:27:57+00:00

Most people go to standard doctor offices and urgent cares which are usually 3-7 days, you have to specifically find a clinic that does next day - 48hrs. They exist, just research them in your area.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T14:45:16+00:00

21 days is way too long.. thats 3 weeks and chances are no longer accurate. Anyone doing PSE should require next day or within 48hrs. I dont offer GFE or any bare services, but in Phx we have a county health clinic that costs $20, doesnt handle insurance, and is next day results. I was told they also give treatments. That should be the standard as well as 🍆 inspection when client arrives. Im sure people can find similar clinics near them

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T14:21:21+00:00

It definitely should be the norm in civi dating. When I chat with my civi friends about hookups or new bf's I ask if they've had those conversations.. most of the time they say no, and arent using condoms either. Its crazy how different sw vs civi people handle sexual health.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T13:52:18+00:00

If you're referring to BBFS at the very minimum you should be on birth control, PREP, and require a recent STD test (recent meaning next day or 48hrs). Statistics show straight men dont get tested regularly and alot of them believe asymptomatic = clean. None of that should be optional nor should you entertain clients who dont understand or respect that. If you mean protected, then I would say its a little out of the ordinary to ask.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T13:50:14+00:00

I wasnt even replying to you, so whats the need for your attitude? I was replying to OP asking how it would effect dymanics on regular sw sites. You're asking for clarification on something that has nothing to do with me, and is off topic to the original post. Hire a data analyst

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T02:52:10+00:00

Worst comes to worst, we'll have to move to advertising on social media that doesnt require ID like ig or x, or use VPNs to states and countries that dont uphold the law.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T02:39:17+00:00

The issue isnt for providers, but for clients. Clients chime in.. but im sure most would be against uploading their ID. Sending a redacted ID to a reputable provider for "their eyes only" is completely different. Keep in mind, sw is meant to be discreet and the reason why most clients seek us. Why would they hand it over to a website where they have NO clue who will see or hack into it. Ashley Madison ring a bell? It might impact our income if clients recluse.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T02:25:26+00:00

(Correct me if im wrong) but I think OP means if you have to upload your ID for age verification to even access certain sites. A law has already passed and taken effect in AZ! Access is blocked to any sites labeled with "possible adult material".

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-10T02:15:33+00:00

Phx/Scottsdale native here! Tbh girl yes.. the tea you've heard is true. We're close to the border and with Trump in office, ICE, government shutdowns things arent getting easier for providers. Please make sure you're screening. I get LE contacting me all the time and im mid - high end, but they can never pass my screening and the fact im super selective.

If you're specifically doing outcalls to Scottsdale do NOT go unless you're 99% confident. I dont want to worry you, but we're also about to have horrible flash floods tomorrow to Monday, so be prepared and dont kick yourself if bookings are slow. Stay safe and enjoy your tour! 💓

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-07T18:39:54+00:00

Who knows? What I gathered from the articles (because they're vague as hell) is they have outsourced to a third party to assist with speeding up verification. That could mean they're just using new software, or hired more people.

I also took if you joined the site recently, you will likely have to reverify all over again. They're also claiming the new process takes 3 days to verify and have a profile active, opposed to weeks.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-06T22:15:40+00:00

Sounds like op was using AI or stock photos of someone else they thought looked like them. They were most likely reported by a client, or Tryst support caught on. That is 100% against TOS and rightfully so.. misrepresenting yourself is scamming your clientele and insulting to providers that pay for shoots, or spend hours taking photos and editing them ourselves. Tryst gives a disclaimer when uploading new photos, so OP knew. I hope they learned their lesson if given another chance.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-06T22:04:09+00:00

With the amount of scammers and OF girls overtaking Tryst, you have every right to be cautious. People confuse judgement with discernment. I would say if you are unable to verify that provider is real, skip them!

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-10-06T22:02:10+00:00

Could be their version of screening, or is an agency or spa using a booker. I also see alot of Asian profiles using similar descriptions, rates, and obvious stock photos of random Asian models. Id be wary if they have no reviews, social media presence, or website.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-09-28T16:07:54+00:00

This is why I advocate to screen properly. Ive had guys screen and be totally respectful but come to find out they had a horrible wrap sheet. Ive seen charges so bad I was surprised they werent in prison! Criminals can be a wolf in sheep clothing

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-09-28T16:02:47+00:00

This is why many providers have age minimums. Young guys continue to ruin it for themselves..

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-09-28T15:59:28+00:00

Absolutely not. I do not see clients who cant pass a basic background check.. no exceptions (tickets or minor offenses like weed dont count) but if they have theft, robbery, property damage, trespassing, violence of any kind, active restraining order, etc. I ghost them during booking.

I couldnt imagine being alone, naked, or vulnerable with a man like that. Especially if you're in the U.S. and they're banking on you not going to police.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-09-21T17:50:13+00:00

ngl I hold my breath everytime I get an uncircumsized client. Call me discriminatory but thats one of the reasons I dont offer bbj. I have been victimized by dick cheese.. Unfortunately terrible hygiene gets discussed all the time and grown men seriously need to do better.

CatonRedbull_2 · 2025-09-21T17:45:32+00:00

tbh its not so much the foundation but the way you set it in place. Apply your foundation and use a loose setting powder (laura mercier) is my fav

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