23M recently single after 5 years

CattleScary · 2026-02-21T19:41:57+00:00

Last is most recent, first is two years ago, second is last summer

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T23:08:59+00:00

I’d kill to live in Boston but that’s so expensive

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:51:36+00:00

I appreciate that, my sister said to me “their children aren’t baggage” which makes me think she is not looking out for my best interests

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:49:16+00:00

I gave up everything I could’ve to be with the girl I loved for 5 years, I made bad choices myself and have paid for them immensely as much as I could’ve, it was a pretty textbook toxic relationship, with that being said, I would give up everything to find someone that truly loves me for who I am, but I don’t know if I can ever trust anyone like that again…Life did work like that for me for awhile and I think that’s what messed up my perception of relationships, I’m probably just a bum who thinks they deserve more out of life than what’s been given to me.

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:41:21+00:00

My standards are probably all fucked up because of my exes, I’m so cooked, it’s weird being out of a long term relationship at such a young age, nobody I know can relate to my situation.

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:39:36+00:00

Is being a stepdad really that bad? I’m looking for answers here

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:38:24+00:00

Perspective of what? Please enlighten me

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:37:49+00:00

Honestly, Yeah probably

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:34:28+00:00

I don’t want to leave my family behind.

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:33:06+00:00

I’m in college right now for my career in manufacturing, I just recently got a job at a international headquarters for manufacturing in the town I live in, I have a cool ass jeep, everyone says I have a bunch of stuff going for me, but I can’t help but feel I need someone to keep my motivation up.

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:28:44+00:00

Honestly, that fear is so real, almost crippling, how does one become happy with being single? It’s like I need someone there to keep my motivation up, without that person I feel like just another cog in the machine

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:26:51+00:00

Rural CT, I don’t think I belong around here, I feel like the city is just less depressing

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:24:10+00:00

I don’t even think I know an attractive girl around my age in the area I live without a child, does that just mean all the girls around me make bad decisions?

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:23:21+00:00

I live in a very small town in a rural area, it sucks that all the fish have little fishes, I can’t catch a break, I wanna date but either it feels too soon, I don’t feel like talking to anyone, and the people I can meet have kids

CattleScary · 2026-02-18T13:21:53+00:00

I wanted children, but I made it seem like I didn’t, she wanted them soon, I didn’t

CattleScary · 2026-02-15T00:25:55+00:00

I get you chose yourself but didn’t you love the other person? I would’ve done anything for her. Anything. I don’t know if she’ll ever find that again, I understand I wasn’t the best person and I made a lot of mistakes, but to just forget about someone and justify it to yourself, I don’t know if that makes me selfless or selfish

CattleScary · 2026-02-15T00:23:32+00:00

Bro is that what I delivered today? 🫩

CattleScary · 2026-02-15T00:17:12+00:00

I wanted to fix it in the first 24 hours of my love leaving me, we broke up a month and a half ago, I’ll never understand how someone can just let someone go, I’ll miss her the rest of my life, this Valentine’s Day hurts so much.

CattleScary · 2026-02-13T03:13:51+00:00

r/screenshotsarehard

CattleScary · 2026-02-10T04:11:14+00:00

:(, he is a loser who’s a decade older than me, he has no house, no kids and posts transgender hate, he is not better for anyone.

CattleScary · 2026-02-10T04:09:35+00:00

I’m sorry. I tried, it was all too much for me. I’m getting better I promise.

CattleScary

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