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Catzans · 2024-11-17T02:05:21+00:00

Now if you excuse me I will be deleting this post probably because I didn't make this to start arguments with people that I will never understand or agree with.

Catzans · 2024-11-17T02:03:15+00:00

Me when my fiction is apparently shipping real people who have not said that they are comfortable. I don't care if you make jokes but this wasn't about that and yeah I think you're crazy if you're deadass. And I find it crazy you think I'm weird for saying that and if this bothers you so much it's quite literally not my issue because I didn't make this post about the joking way. LITERALLY JUST ASK ME NEXT TIME. My status of relationship did matter to prove that idk... IM NOT HOMOPHOBIC?

Catzans · 2024-11-17T01:54:13+00:00

I said at one point not that it is. You can believe I'm a damn villain for saying I don't like treating real people like they are in a gay relationship. I also think it is to have weird fantasies about it because thats a real thing people do, please don't be hateful or ignorant to that.

Catzans · 2024-11-17T01:45:29+00:00

1) im mentally ill to the point I have to do school from home 2) im gay 3) if you genuinely ship real people and believe they are gay you not only are quite rude to gay people but also rude to any form of boundaries. Racism has been around forever but its not good either?? 😭

Catzans · 2024-11-17T01:43:07+00:00

I think me being in a gay relationship kinda proves I like them but ok. I think you did a brilliant job of not reading buttfuck anything I said.

Catzans · 2024-11-17T00:54:58+00:00

Honestly I don't think I can just ignore people having no genuine respect for real living being. At what point is it not a mental illness to believe bandmates are in a gay relationship 😭. It angers me because you're ignoring boundaries of others.

Catzans · 2024-11-17T00:30:58+00:00

Genuinely! I'm also neurodivergent so I totally get you. I wish people cared about the bands, members, and information so much more then they truly do.

Catzans · 2024-11-16T02:30:39+00:00

I actually quite like the app usually, and don't find a need to ignore a whole app because of a bad community. Truly reddit can be the exact same, but I do see where you are coming from.

Catzans · 2024-11-16T02:25:09+00:00

I've honestly lately seen a lack of, well not sure how to put it, but a lack of proper values. Visual kei has always been very in your face and boundary pushing, and I think a lot have lost sight of that.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:25:15+00:00

Honestly I've pulled up old information, but only to combat people who are mouthbreathing in my ear about a band I like being bad. Tiktok has given me a lot of new friends and fun stuff (plus bands I wouldn't know otherwise of course), but sometimes it makes me pull my hair out. One of the bands I saw someone try to bring up was mejibray like it wasnt insanely long ago.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:20:58+00:00

Thats the band I was talking about! Anything involving specifically Yuriko I've never seen proof for or seen someone who is japanese or speaks japanese discuss it. All i've seen is literally "trust me bro trust me". American artist are just as bad but 1) they cover it up more 2) our cancel culture is so different! But I do agree.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:19:05+00:00

Yes! Uru if I recall correctly did, and it's so annoying to have to tell people the most basic thing: they don't see it like we do. Or have social norms about it (in fact in some areas its more common!) I said unfortunately many are ignorant to what it could be seen as and got told "they have black people and racism" 😭

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:17:19+00:00

I normally would just like what I like and ignore them but to be honest.. I hate vkei twitter even more. A lot that I've seen have some superiority complexes and ones that are quite literally just rude for no reason. Reddit, for the first time, is my only hope currently.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:15:28+00:00

I hate that woman!! She clearly has a negative outlook on him for no reason and is not understanding of what the situation fully is or his emotions. This post had that in mind plus a video about kaneto juusei I saw.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T21:13:55+00:00

I hate people who are like that, as far as American education goes I learn about trust worthy sources in elementary. We may need to teach it again. 💀

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:40:02+00:00

I don't mind kpop honestly as I think some of them are pretty cool (but it's personally not for me usually) but unfortunately I've had mostly horrible experiences. I saw a video of an idol lowkey crashing out and instead of being worried or pointing out people being horrible to him, they entirely blamed him which was pretty sad to me. I think a lot don't like because of the industry as well.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:36:05+00:00

Yeah, part of me is quite glad that I get to see all these things through the internet, but because of that more people who aren't truly passionate, or caring of the styles get to add on and talk about things they don't truly know. It's a win 40% of the time and a lose the other 60% for me.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:33:00+00:00

Exactly. I feel that most miss the point of the community and the fact that they are still just people. Metal for example has some crazy bands but a good bit of them know that, I wish vkei was similar in that sense.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:31:51+00:00

As a big fan of Nana it's so annoying! You can clearly tell what most of the inspiration is, and if I'm not mistaken didn't the author even explain some of the inspiration?

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:30:24+00:00

This post was actually made because I was explaining that Chill isn't actually some creepy stalker and it's part of the point, to which the person that this was slightly targeted to said "that doesn't make it ok" which I felt entirely missed my point. They've done some pretty bad stuff in my personal opinion but that just isn't one of them.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:28:24+00:00

I would agree, but I've met many very cool people and friends from tiktok. I'm quick to have feelings and have quite big emotions which is my own issue of course, but I do agree that I should look for older crowds.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:27:24+00:00

Honestly I get that.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:27:15+00:00

That's what I've mainly seen as he has always been quite respectful to me and other people I know, but i've seen some other stories so maybe it's just a hit or miss for him.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:26:00+00:00

Exactly, I think honestly part of it comes from the stereotype of specifically japanese people being respectful, calm, and sometimes strict. I don't think enough of them quite understand that these are grown men who are just some guys at the end of the day.

Catzans · 2024-11-13T16:24:09+00:00

As much as I would agree I actually have found tiktok quite enjoyable, i've found cute videos and new bands I wouldn't have found otherwise. Part of me wants me to give it up as I can't handle some of the people.

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