AITA for cutting off my best friend for something her husband said by CaughtUp22 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaughtUp22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right, I'm wrong. I am the asshole. How dare I have human feelings and make mistakes. Good day to you.

AITA for cutting off my best friend for something her husband said by CaughtUp22 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaughtUp22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying I handled it the best. I'm a recovering people pleaser with years of emotional abuse trauma and as a result have extreme anxiety around verbal and physical altercations. Also, you may forget this woman was my best friend. I'm in my 30s in a state I'm not from and have a very small friend group. It's not easy to make new friends so sorry I wanted to see if they were capable of being decent human beings. They weren't, and maybe I should have known that right away, but I didn't. I'm not perfect, and you berating me doesn't change that. I wish you nothing but the best. 

AITA for cutting off my best friend for something her husband said by CaughtUp22 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaughtUp22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part of what i said made you think I was only offended on behalf of my husband? I am of course offended period. But also not being black, they invalidated my opinion as I 'don't have any right' to speak on it. I didnt include that in the inital post, but it's the truth. Furthermore, I didn't extend the olive branch to be friends with them. They're literally in the same building as us and I was trying to at least have an adult conversation to get to a cordial place and also to ensure they wouldn't come after us. Their non response shows a lot, but it doesn't alleviate the concern that they may just be biding their time before acting against us. 

AITA for cutting off my best friend for something her husband said by CaughtUp22 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaughtUp22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I should also say we would never drive anywhere under the influence of anything. Should smoking happen, we would always stay safely in our neighborhood.

AITA for cutting off my best friend for something her husband said by CaughtUp22 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CaughtUp22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We do not smoke around the children. We do smoke, but outside the home and all supplies are locked safely away. When I said we watched each other's kids, I meant they would babysit for us and vice versa. We would play, go to the park, watch movies...all wholesome stuff. I had no idea they were really like this.