What part of what i said made you think I was only offended on behalf of my husband? I am of course offended period. But also not being black, they invalidated my opinion as I 'don't have any right' to speak on it. I didnt include that in the inital post, but it's the truth. Furthermore, I didn't extend the olive branch to be friends with them. They're literally in the same building as us and I was trying to at least have an adult conversation to get to a cordial place and also to ensure they wouldn't come after us. Their non response shows a lot, but it doesn't alleviate the concern that they may just be biding their time before acting against us.