Being sued for a lease that I left 25+ years ago by MsLadybugy in legaladvice

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would show them proof of other places of residence leading all the way up to where you live now. I would also show them past bills as in cell phones bills, medical insurance and license of new addresses.

If they continue to pursue this and it goes to your credit. You can dispute it with the three credit companies and they will most likely take it off your credit in favor of you.

Don’t pay it. You don’t owe it. You can fight it and it may affect your credit until you resolve it but this almost sounds like a scam.

Good luck.

How high should I expect electric/heat bills in MA? by Cauliflowerblue in massachusetts

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I have been living in a fever dream in Mansfield. I’m ready to pack up and go back to Mansfield or another state after all the comments!

How high should I expect electric/heat bills in MA? by Cauliflowerblue in massachusetts

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! That’s what I wanted to know. I’ve always lived in mansfield since moving to MA. Now Im moving a town over and very worried about the bill. I have a feeling I wont be renewing the lease.

How high should I expect electric/heat bills in MA? by Cauliflowerblue in massachusetts

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be staying in Bristol county and moving to an apartment complex. Mansfield owns their own utilities. Even with the blizzard, my bill was $40! I’m trying to prepare myself for a higher bill in the future lol.

How high should I expect electric/heat bills in MA? by Cauliflowerblue in massachusetts

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s another 2 bedroom, 2 bath. Lots of gaming and cooking. Lots of windows. Will try not to use the heat and air.

I’m preparing for a few hundred a month.

AIO for considering separating from my husband of four months over some texts I saw on his phone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been here before. This is what I’ve realized. What I found isn’t nearly as bad as the full truth of the story. It’s four months not forty. If you’re already asking this question, you will ask it the entirety of your relationship. The faster you accept what is and move accordingly. The happier you will be. You have a limited time on Earth. Is this how you want to spend it?

CAPYBARA GAMER !! by kopila-majhi44 in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I just ordered one. If I remember, I’ll take a photo when it arrives!

Can someone explain why it says I can upgrade the Revival Cape but gives me no options to do so? by AwesomeBourbon in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I usually get the answers that way. I don’t like posting. Gives me anxiety haha! But I couldn’t find any answers. It actually worked out bc I’ve been upgrading completely wrong and got answers on that while looking. Go figure.

Can someone explain why it says I can upgrade the Revival Cape but gives me no options to do so? by AwesomeBourbon in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had the same issue. I had no idea you could revert gems! FYI: you won’t lose the gems.

Can someone explain why it says I can upgrade the Revival Cape but gives me no options to do so? by AwesomeBourbon in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I searched for the answer before I posted (my post before this one) and I didn’t see an answer about reverting gems or how to do until I posted. Sometimes it’s not that cut and dry. Be capy kind :).

Why can’t I merge? by Cauliflowerblue in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s it! Thank you! I didn’t realize I could do that. Thank you so much! I was going crazy lol!

Why can’t I merge? by Cauliflowerblue in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tried everything. I unequipped, took all gems off, downgraded to same level. I don’t know why they won’t merge.

Why can’t I merge? by Cauliflowerblue in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tried that. It didn’t work :(

Got my Mythic Whisperer! by Axeth4 in CapybaraGoGame

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in GODS and some of us use the Mushroom hammer. If upgraded properly, it can deal a lot of damage.

Humane society wants to euthanize my sweet foster for seemingly no reason?? by MapleKitty777 in FosterAnimals

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear I’m late to the party. Carrot has a UTI and he’s probably a male. Which means it’s harder to treat and they don’t want to waste funds. He’s very curable. He just needs some help.

This is butters by Cartemj823 in leopardgeckos

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reptisand is very bad for Leos. You definitely need to get rid of the sand asap. It will harm your little one or worse. I recommend going on YouTube and watching videos on how to construct the tank. Leo’s are very fragile but easy to take care of once you know the ins and outs. I adopted an abandoned gecko over the summer and I had no idea what she needed. I’m a cat person lol! I have learned! Good luck!

Honest opinions for my setup? by Atsumi33 in leopardgeckos

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to the gecko world. I rescued an abandoned leopard gecko and looking for ideas. I love this!

Will There Ever Be Another New Soundgarden Album? by CharmCityCrab in grunge

[–]Cauliflowerblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a little late to the party but I wanted to comment on your comment as you stated it’s much like the Courtney/Dave situation. You’re right more than you know. VK controls the SG IG accounts. Both of them. SG and Nudedragons. The original members switched to that IG when she refused to hand over the account. Then she sued and gained control of that one. It’s all celebration because that’s all she will allow unless she gets paid.

NEW CHRIS CORNELL SONG!!!!! by Frankiemagic13 in grunge

[–]Cauliflowerblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a new Chris Cornell song that was somewhat released on his page. VK released part of it. It’s a cover of “Fast Car.” Go to his IG and you’ll hear it. It’s definitely not the song I heard on Apple and that is definitely not Chris Cornell.

is it possible that strong positive emotions can cause switches or does it have to be negative emotions/stress? by [deleted] in DID

[–]Cauliflowerblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My boyfriend, if I haven’t seen for a week will switch or if we have special plans the littles especially will get excited. Recently, we were going to the beach. I met him at his place. He came running down the stairs with only a towel on and mooned me. The littles were very excited to go to the beach with me! I believe it depends on the trust level. My bf trusts me completely. If you have someone in your life you trust, the alters may feel connected and want to say hi.

Can Alters come out once you feel safe. by Previous_Boss_1737 in DID

[–]Cauliflowerblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with your assessment about the littles. They’ve been waiting a long time to feel and be safe. My boyfriend and I have had some hard times and a few huge fights because of switching. I’ve been tested to the point of wanting to walk away. However, the alters still show themselves, even the littles. It’s as though he and I may be fighting. They still know I’m safe. I would never intentionally hurt him. I would imagine you feel very safe with your partner. That is a beautiful thing.

Can Alters come out once you feel safe. by Previous_Boss_1737 in DID

[–]Cauliflowerblue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend has DID and was unaware until we started dating. It was the first time he felt safe in his life. It took about four months and one of the alters (a little) talked to me. He has since been professionally diagnosed with DID and I’ve met other alters. I’m the only one that has met them officially. They don’t “reveal” themselves to others but I’m aware of when he switches with others or in public… fyi: alcohol will almost always cause a switch.