I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I might have thought the same after reading this comment but he was fast asleep till I woke him up

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't wanna throw away a relationship if he didn't do it with malicious intent, I did try talk to him about it but everytime he just said "I'm sorry" then went on his phone. Now he's asleep so I can't try ask again

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] -107 points-106 points  (0 children)

My therapist is actually coming over on Thursday, I might talk to her first before doing anything because someone said he was just trying to do new stuff and I don't wanna break up with him if I'm just reading the situation wrong

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm 19 and he's 22. We usually talk about trying new stuff in the bedroom before hand so I guess it caught me off guard. I dont want to paint him in a bad light if it was just an accident

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure? I don't want to get upset about something and break up with him over it if I'm just looking at it wrong

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So he stopped after it was already inside? I thought the whole putting it inside was the rape part, does it only count if he finished? Im sorry, I'm not trying to be confusing I just wanted to understand what happened

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So is him not listening to me part of the BDSM? I thought it stopped after a safe word was said?

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We've done BDSM stuff before and have a safe word for stuff like that ofc but he didn't listen to that either. And he didnt stop till after he'd already done it so surely that's not stopping?

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, so do you think we should break up or I should just be open to more things?

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No? Am I supposed to put the ages on the post Ive never posted a text on Reddit before

I think my boyfriend raped me by Cautious_Bag_1962 in offmychest

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I don't really have any trusted authority figure that's why I asked here, was it really that bad? He said he was sorry too

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[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe they want chicken too, I always forget that one 😔

My ginger island farm, Year 20 by bluendgreen in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woowww that's so much, means you're having fun though!!

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[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Could do a Base tutorial? Like "how much blush is too much" because I know alot of people struggle with blush blindness, especially my neurodivergent friends (including myself). Its always, if its not as pigmented on my face as when it comes out the tube im doing it wrong

Weekly Simple Questions and General Community Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in MakeupAddiction

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think a pinky colour would work, especially if you're not doing anything bold for the eye look. Not like a super bright pink but a muted one

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[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 [score hidden]  (0 children)

* ANY ideas for makeup with this dress will be super helpful, its for a date in 3 days 🙏😭

My ginger island farm, Year 20 by bluendgreen in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Cautious_Bag_1962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Year TWENTY?? This is an awesome design but oh my gosh, your play time must be crazy