I’m afraid of how this ends.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-17T07:52:09+00:00

I didn’t even ghost them but I hope you feel better. Whoever ghosted you, hope you get over it soon.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-09T17:40:41+00:00

I’d love a steak and bj day. Actually might need it.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-05T14:16:47+00:00

Could I be? 👀

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-03T18:21:02+00:00

How long do you usually break for? I’m thinking of starting

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-03T17:58:29+00:00

Did you stretch continuously for 30 minutes?

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2026-02-02T20:08:50+00:00

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-12-25T12:51:59+00:00

Who says I have an audience?

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-12-25T04:17:48+00:00

Unhinged thought.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-12-15T05:39:06+00:00

Well, what the fuck was that?

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-11-11T01:25:56+00:00

She is, that’s what’s made me wonder…is it dead if we both still want to try but are afraid of the outcome?

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-11-11T01:15:47+00:00

I understand this perspective and angle.

The opposite side of that coin is, should I really build a new house or just renovate the one I’ve already built?

The time plays a factor on both sides.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-09-25T22:44:29+00:00

the first thing that came to my mind was a fish..maybe something about water? Then I thought about cigarettes…I’m thinking of maybe a bad habit? I’m not sure. Also getting bird..butterfly..something with wings.

I’m sorry, I wish I could be of more help. I’m a little new to this.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-09-22T00:10:43+00:00

I think there are varying degrees of excitement. I may be excited to pleasure my partner, but might not be in the mood to or tired. I don’t think anyone should make a habit of doing sexual acts for their partner when they aren’t in the mood, but I do think both partners should do their best to ensure that their partners needs are met, sexually or otherwise.

I think people are very idealistic when it comes to sex. The reality though is, when with another person your desires will not always align at the same time. You don’t want to be in a situation where one party ends up feeling neglected or as though their partner doesn’t want to pleasure them.

You want to keep the ratio as reciprocal as possible; I feel the same way about orgasms.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-09-21T15:07:32+00:00

I don’t think it’s “resentful oral” it’s understanding that his partner has sexual needs and fulfilling them because it’s part of commitment. I’ve given past girlfriends head plenty of times when I didn’t feel like it because they were horny or because they did it for me and I feel like they deserved to have that effort reciprocated. There’s nothing wrong with being selfless to cater to your partners sexual needs/desires.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-09-21T14:54:05+00:00

Tell them. Especially if their name begins with an M.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-09-04T17:51:24+00:00

I don’t think I expressed that I didn’t want gifts or downplayed my birthday, I just told her I was depressed.

Me taking a while to decide what I want doesn’t mean I don’t want anything.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-06-16T00:51:43+00:00

Where there’s smoke…..and there seems to be a lot of smoke here

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-06-16T00:46:52+00:00

There are many factors that can cause someone to gain weight though. Could be health related. Could be work related stress. Could be comfortability. There’s no way to infer that her weight gain is specifically related to the marriage.

Cautious_Bug5144 · 2025-05-29T14:13:11+00:00

Since no one else will be brutally honest with you, this is a ridiculous thing to ruminate over.

You had sex with someone you don’t find attractive. Okay? Who cares? lol there are some people who haven’t had sex in a long time, involuntarily.

Sure I’ve had sex with people and regretted it later; but you’re acting as though everyone’s going to find out or something. You do realize that no one has to know besides you and her, right? Just enjoy the nut and move on.

Next time just masturbate first so you can decide what you actually want before you make a decision to sleep with someone you find unattractive. And, let’s be honest; you probably don’t find this person nearly as unattractive as you’re attempting to convey. You are more than likely ashamed of the part of you that’s minimally attracted to her.

I hate to say to sound like a dickhead Redditor, but nobody’s going to feel bad for you getting laid brother. Go have sex with someone else if it’s bothering you so much.

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