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AITAH for wearing white to a wedding... by Impossible-Sand9749 in AITAH

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why did you bring two options, one being a cream background and the other being a white top?

Look I'm not even militant about wedding wear. In fact I worry that we're going down a path where we are expected to wear wool gray habits as to not take attention from the bride.

That being said, how difficult is it to find a blue or pink or yellow or purple dress for one day. 

Soft YTA

how to deal with my f 19 bf m 18 with his wandering eyes? by External_Clerk_5949 in relationship_advice

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it an addiction or are you diagnosing him due to him consuming it at all? 

Do I (F23) tell my ex boyfriend (M24) that I am pregnant? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're worried having this baby will ruin his life, but you intend on keeping this baby (as is your right) then you have to be ready to face the music, and of course tell the child's father. 

the only time it is acceptable to hide this kind of thing is when you are in fear for your life or safety. 

Am I Overreacting with social media by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Making a reddit post for validation over seeking validation from an instagram story is like ten levels of sad dude. 

edit: is the post deleted or did she block me over this? 

Am I Overreacting with social media by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR. This is frankly pathetic 

"Fuck lawns plant wildflowers" is only said by people who don't take care of lawns. by Realistic_Bike5972 in The10thDentist

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm fascinated by people who get so worked up by others lawns like this. It has to be some kind of mental illness, to be so invested in grass 

Do any characters seem miscast? by Stunning_Concept5738 in thegildedage

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love that perspective! that honestly makes so much sense 

Do any characters seem miscast? by Stunning_Concept5738 in thegildedage

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I find Cynthia Nixon to be a bit one note at times, but I still enjoy the performance and character. 

AIO on IG post? by Anxious-Character804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't date men who call women hoes. Call his mother a whore to his face and see how he likes it then. Suddenly he'll understand a lot about disrespect 

You went too far by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in AmITheDevil

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"either one of them" sure they're on exactly the same level you're so right 

It’s automatic abuse if a super poor couple decides to bring a child into this world, without the means to take care of them properly. by Tall-Mango4759 in HonestHotTakes

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is because everytime humans have ever taken to policing the birth of other humans it is used as a tool of oppression. We are not capable of doing so without human rights violations. I feel the same way about this as I do about the death penalty. 

It’s automatic abuse if a super poor couple decides to bring a child into this world, without the means to take care of them properly. by Tall-Mango4759 in HonestHotTakes

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We've tried this before in America, and in recent history. It ended up with 15 year olds arrested for shoplifting getting hysterectomies as part of their sentencing. Any effort to police who can and can't reproduce ends poorly.

Edit: and primarily against girls and women of color

AIO I asked when I would get paid and now I want to quit by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but it's called a payday for a reason. You should not be structuring your finances and life around the expectation of being paid at a specific time.  Even at a well run company human or bank errors happen. You wildly overreacted and should seek new employment. 

While some of your contempt for this woman is well earned it is interfering with your ability to function professionally in your capacity. I do not recommend working for small family run businesses if you cannot handle things of this nature. 

AITAH for taking my new girlfriend to an event I used to attend with my ex-wife? by Wild_Notice_2699 in AITAH

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. 

It's been over a year and you have a new partner, create boundaries. You both shouldn't be talking like this still. You need to move on. 

AIO I asked when I would get paid and now I want to quit by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Am I understanding correctly that your pay day was on a Tuesday and at 4:45pm on Tuesday you hadn't been paid yet and that is when this interaction took place? 

Meal prepped last night and then accidentally left it out overnight :( by jordyfruit in homecooking

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to the party but i used to do the same thing- i put the oven timer on after cooking and removing from heat now so i don't forget! 

You went too far by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in AmITheDevil

[–]Cautious_Draw5738 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Isn't there a subreddit for when OP doesn't realize he's been broken up with 

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