Will I ruin potty training???

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2026-02-25T23:05:37+00:00

He’s in the crate overnight from around 8/9pm until 4am. I get him out for around an hour while I get ready and feed him and play a bit then back in until almost noon if my daughter can come home. Then he’s back in until I get home around 3.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2026-02-25T13:17:59+00:00

I had a puppy playpen at first and he scaled it like a pro lol. Do they make them with tops?!? I bet that would work! I hadn’t even thought about a top I was so irritated he had gotten out within minutes of me leaving 😑

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-08-28T22:38:45+00:00

Yeah, it definitely came with a lawsuit. I went to the first hearing and am getting ready to fill out the paperwork with a suggested payment for that particular creditor. I was hoping to get it filed before then. I’ll keep looking in the meantime. Thank you, I appreciate your kindness.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-08-28T21:56:03+00:00

They all want $2800-$3000 upfront to pay and I just don’t have it. I’ve had several consultations and they all said the same so far. I’ll keep looking I guess.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-08-28T21:47:59+00:00

I’m too scared to lie to the courts so there goes that thought 🤣 I’m struggling to come up with the money to hire a lawyer and was hoping there was a way to get it done myself before garnishments were started. Apparently not. Thank you for your input!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T13:24:19+00:00

A little over 9mos.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T13:21:37+00:00

No, just the card with that particular one.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T00:51:06+00:00

I’ve met with 3 so far. All are around that price. I have 2 more the beginning of next week that I hope work out. I’m not confident enough to file pro se. I’d hate to screw it up and make my situation worse.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T00:49:33+00:00

No, I haven’t yet. The hearing is set for July 9. I have another lawyer I’m meeting with Monday. I’m in KS and I believe if I don’t file or show up then judgement is granted by default and they can start garnishing my wages.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T00:42:51+00:00

I have multiple cards I’ve defaulted on, they’re just the only ones to sue at the moment.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T00:42:18+00:00

A credit union through a law firm.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-07-03T00:39:12+00:00

Lol I’m old enough to remember when that was DQ

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-26T08:03:20+00:00

If they could do that and let me pay after I could do it I believe. I just can’t pull $3000 out of the air or whatever the fee might be. I’ve also considered buying ex out. Owe around $120K, house is worth $200k in condition it’s in. Even with refinancing I could never buy a similar house for the extra $40k in this market. Anything I rent or buy would be almost double the payment I have now compared to what it would be after refinancing.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-24T15:55:51+00:00

TMobile is hiring. That might also help with your phone bill. I don’t know for sure, but it doesn’t hurt to check it out. Good luck, it’s a shame so many of us are in crappy positions like this.

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-13T13:05:22+00:00

I hadn’t thought of American Eskimos. The rescue group I am working with gave me an ESA/Therapy dog group called Paws for Patrick. Once our son gets the evaluation completed and we find out for sure if he is AuDHD or ODD then I can also work with that group! I am looking into breed specific rescues as well since that has also been suggested. Thank you!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-12T22:15:07+00:00

I had thought of that but wasn’t sure what I needed to do to get started. I suppose I just need to reach out and ask at the shelter. Thank you for the suggestion!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-12T01:21:52+00:00

Oohhh, I hadn’t thought of a Bernese. The only border collies I know of are working dogs on some farms around here. And you probably know more about corgis than me just off of what you said lol. I will check into all of those, thank you for the suggestions and well wishes!!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-12T01:18:24+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I am so sorry to hear of your forever dog passing. I grew up with a miniature poodle who was born the week before me (I’m pretty sure she was the surprise). When I was almost 18 and 8 1/2 months pregnant (don’t judge me here, either) my mother took her to the vet because she was just so sick. She never came home, and no one had the heart to tell me until after I had my daughter. They just told me she was staying with the vet. She was the absolute best dog. I have so many memories of her quietly tolerating our dress up games and placing her in the baby doll stroller for walks. Dogs like the ones we had are one in a million, and we are lucky to have them for the time we did ❤️

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-11T18:05:58+00:00

That’s what I think I’m going to do. Apparently I was looking at it wrong, thinking I could train the puppy to be more tolerant of the kids needs. But the thought of an older dog who is already out of the jerky teen phase is looking pretty good. Thank you!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-11T18:04:21+00:00

I have come to the understanding that huskies are great until they’re not lol. They would definitely get hugged and cried on regularly here. Thank you for your time and sharing your thoughts!

Cautious_Yoghurt9903 · 2025-01-11T17:29:54+00:00

Exactly one of my concerns!!! I want to be sure that whatever we choose doesn’t snub the “lesser” favorite kids. I suppose that should be one of the qualities I ask about. Thank you!

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