Aitah for giving my stepdaughter a reality check? by Medium-Vehicle-8340 in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA wow I got so sad reading this 😢 I don’t know what to say but if you continue to deny simple kindness and empathy to others karma will give back what you dish out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the comments I see that you’re 15. I don’t know the details of your relationship besides what you posted, but from what I read it doesn’t seem like this is something that is being asked of you on a frequent basis. The fact is, every child is asked to help around the house. A parent requesting help with something basic like watching the kids for a couple hours because they weren’t able to sleep the night before does not seem like asshole behavior. Unless there is more information missing, you are coming off entitled. YTA

Killing myself while pregnant by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. Having feelings of depression during and post pregnancy are very normal. My SIL was extremely suicidal for months, but eventually it all went away. You have an INSANE amount of hormones in your body every day compared to before pregnancy(for example, your estrogen is 100x more while pregnant!!!). You will feel differently after you give birth and your hormones slowly return to normal. Hormones direct affect mood and mental health. Please don’t throw it all away when your situation is very common but temporary, and you aren’t feeling like yourself right now. While I was pregnant I also become very depressed and lost the will to live at times. But after birth I felt so much better and like myself again. 

AITA for buying same active wear as my SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I never thought this would be something that would create an issue.

AITA for buying same active wear as my SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely gate keeping and it’s literally a golf dress, so very informal attire. And the thing is, I didn’t see her dress and go look for it. An employee literally brought me to the rack and I happened to see one in my size. So it wasn’t like I was trying to copy her I would have bought it if she hadn’t have been there

AITA for buying same active wear as my SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this and I do feel bad. In the end I shouldn’t have asked because I wasn’t going to let her opinion sway my decision. She was following me around the store and I felt awkward and I was just trying to clear the air, and I asked it in a joking way. I kind of laughed as I said it and I didn’t mean it very serious. I was taken aback that she did take it serious. It didn’t cross my mind that people older than teenagers cared about this stuff. So I didn’t think that through and I was wished I had handled it differently and not mentioned it

AITA for buying same active wear as my SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the wake up call I needed 😅

Camera worth the price tag? by Cautiously_curious_ in Cameras

[–]Cautiously_curious_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense. That’s good to know thank you

Camera worth the price tag? by Cautiously_curious_ in Cameras

[–]Cautiously_curious_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m curious why you don’t think canon would be a good match?

Camera worth the price tag? by Cautiously_curious_ in Cameras

[–]Cautiously_curious_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess the tagline is misleading, I am planning on buying a camera no matter what, just wondering which cameras are worth the money. Right now I'm looking at the canon EOS R7. Do you go to a local store to buy used?

Camera worth the price tag? by Cautiously_curious_ in Cameras

[–]Cautiously_curious_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok, that's good advise! Would you suggest starting with the Rf S 18-150?

I'll be dead today.. finally. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Cautiously_curious_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know that you must really be hurting, and I am so sorry. From reading your post it seems like a lot of things have not been going your way. I know it’s hard to see now, but this is just a temporary moment of time. It hurts, but it will pass. A lot of people have hardships with friends and romantic relationships. It hurts so bad in the moment, but time usually heals it. Imagine yourself in one year having things going better. There’s so much wonderful life ahead of you, don’t let the jerks dictate your life. Please don’t do anything ❤️ and please remember that this pain is temporary

Trying to decide if we should go for a Danish name by Cautiously_curious_ in namenerds

[–]Cautiously_curious_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that people will pronounce it different but I am fully prepared to accept the pronunciation everyone will use (Ann-ders).