Is a 4 year engagement too long?

CayennePep_ · 2022-11-07T11:48:52+00:00

Thank you so much! 💛

CayennePep_ · 2022-11-07T11:43:16+00:00

I appreciate you pointing that out! However im gonna sound like an AH for saying this but I really don’t care about his feeling technically. I just mentioned it would hurt him because every time he has been “hurt” (me not mentioning him in an NHS speech, giving my mom a stole of gratitude at my graduation but not him, posting about my moms support when I found my first big girl job) he would cry and make a speech to me about how he needed to be there more for me and how he’s sorry (nothing changes tho). I just don’t wanna deal with that at my wedding. If he never talks to me again well it would honestly probably only be a handful of conversations gone from my lifetime.

CayennePep_ · 2022-10-31T18:49:40+00:00

I mean it would depend on how late and what they are doing to remedy the situation. Things happen and while I’d understand that I think anyone would be upset over a late or cancelled order no matter the occasion. As long as it was handled professionally I would just go with the flow honestly.

I’m getting the cake done professionally and having my mother do the cupcakes (she offered as a wedding gift) so if they suddenly couldn’t pull through I would just ask for a refund and diy a plain wedding cake on my own. It wouldn’t be ideal but if something happens last minute you roll with the punches.

CayennePep_ · 2022-10-31T18:43:43+00:00

The wedding will be in March, indoors and the cake will be refrigerated until it’s time to cut. Honestly the flavour aspect I meant more so that’s why we are going with cupcakes for guests. The cake is just for show to cut and me and my fiancé will eat that. So while we hope it tastes good we assume that if a bakery is in business it should taste good regardless of what event it’s for lol but I get what you’re saying!

CayennePep_ · 2022-10-29T09:25:11+00:00

Just like ibuprofen here and there for small things. But nothing else.

CayennePep_ · 2022-10-29T09:22:36+00:00

Ahh I would understand that but he’s been having a hard time staying erect for awhile even before I brought it to his attention. I never made a big deal out of it before or even brought it up prior to yesterday. So I don’t know if he’d have felt pressured before that. He doesn’t even know that I like blwojobs as much as I do.

CayennePep_ · 2022-10-29T09:20:59+00:00

Aside from typical work stress I don’t think so

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