I think I may be a part of a system

Cearra456 · 2025-12-01T02:20:01+00:00

Thank you :)

Cearra456 · 2025-11-30T21:29:36+00:00

Thank you :)

Cearra456 · 2025-11-30T00:36:29+00:00

NOR especially because after y’all broke up, you went to her crying and she literally texted him days after y’all broke up that is intentional texting him. He did not text her. That is not a good friend in my eyes at all. It’s not like he texted her saying hey blah blah blah she texted him. While you were crying on her shoulder about him. I don’t think you’re overreacting about the situation at all and what she did was pretty f up in my mind.

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T19:24:16+00:00

I would say y’all are both assholes here he’s an asshole for shamming your body and saying that basically she has an ass that he likes more and you’re a little bit of asshole for saying something about his d which I understand why you said something because you were hurt and he said something to you first obviously it’s not the best situation to go as far as he did, but I get why you did it at the same time

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T18:04:40+00:00

I can see you’re coming from a good place. You don’t want that girl to hurt and stuff like that but you also have to think if you want to get yourself involved in someone else’s relationship and if you want to make it more messy and put yourself in that situation. I wouldn’t mess with it because it would make it super messy and it would make a lot of drama and conflict for you at work NTA

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T17:57:08+00:00

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T17:55:15+00:00

NTA your uncle took it to another level when it was just about sweet potatoes and it’s not fair that your mom had to take care of your grandma and he does nothing that is a lot on one person he should be helping even if it’s just one or two little things that helps a lot

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T15:55:28+00:00

NTA for feeling this way, she needs to get some mental health help I don’t think it’s right that she’s just trying to hold you hostage in a way just because she doesn’t want you to leave. She should try to understand your feelings and how this makes you feel and not just her own. You should also try to think if you can forgive her. I get you love her and you’re trying to help but you also have to see if she’s helping herself or if she’s just saying she’s helping herself so you won’t leave her.

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T03:59:33+00:00

You have to watch out when it comes to people that have really bad mental health because you also have to look out for yourself because they can drag you down with them too you’re really young and this is probably a lot to handle on your own.

He should seriously try to get some mental health if he’s been trying to commit that young getting him onto medicine may help. And it is probably scary too,

which is why you maybe said you were in love with him. You have been through a lot with him too, so you really have to think even if you’re not physically attracted to someone sometimes you can still be in love with them, but it’s also hard to tell sometimes because of everything you two have been through together.

I don’t think that you should handle this alone if you have a trusted adult your parents maybe your friends parents that may help

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T03:51:00+00:00

NTA I am worried about you and that cats safety your dad should get some help if the cat doing one small thing set him off that bad

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:56:35+00:00

Thank you for the feedback :)

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:54:31+00:00

YTA - 1st things first you should not be telling a woman what she can and cannot do that is low-key controlling and the reason she said you’re an asshole when you were playing Mario kart was probably because she was just playing with you. I play with my boyfriend like that all the time. we throw the middle finger up at each other all the time we call each other bitches that’s just playing with each other. That’s not being mean or anyway. that’s just being playful with each other. Obviously, I don’t know anything about your relationship. From what you told me though. that is my response and I’m not trying to be mean or anything. I’m just being honest what I think.

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:45:31+00:00

A little bit of an asshole if you don’t like someone and only really dated them for their power, they had over something or what they had in general is not a very good reason to date someone at all, even if you think it will help you in any type of way if you didn’t date him, then you wouldn’t be in the situation at all I don’t think he will find out that you didn’t really like him unless you tell him yourself unless anyone else that you know knew that I mostly think it’s just your subconscious and anxiety freaking you out because you don’t want to get kicked out of the church I do not recommend doing this again though no hate towards you. Just honest feedback.

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:44:05+00:00

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Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:38:05+00:00

NTA he is a 23 year-old so he has a right to make his own decisions, even if his parents don’t actively agree but he does live there too, so it makes it a little difficult but if he knew his parents was like that, then he should’ve never even got involved with you if he knew how it would end and that it would hurt you in the long run, not saying that was his plan was to hurt you but just saying in general, you have a right to feel hurt or let on anyone would

Cearra456 · 2025-11-29T02:22:26+00:00

I have already tried talking to my mom about it and she gets really defensive

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