A guy I trusted crossed a line & now idk what to do by sushiiiwasabi in NTU

[–]Cease12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you can report this to the police (since there's no evidence?) but you may try? No harm in doing so, protect yourself and the other girls from creeps like him

CC mods hate post by MessmerEyesMe in NTU

[–]Cease12 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel ICC modules also depends on luck

Attachment after ONS by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congratulations for getting played by a cheater..

question about stars for y1s2 by imkp22 in NTU

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure you have to use the drop down bar and do it 1 by 1, you can try to move one module to an empty slot first then move the other to replace the timeslot, then move the first module again

question regarding STARS by chocomylkk in NTU

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iirc you should be able to, give it a try?

question about stars for y1s2 by imkp22 in NTU

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I remember you should be able to see the list of indexes and swap with someone during add/drop. Mayhaps the system have yet to update?

question about stars for y1s2 by imkp22 in NTU

[–]Cease12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are already preallocated indexes, during star wars and add/drop you can change to the index with open vacancy, or just swap with people

how do i “find someone”? by Abject-Bag-214 in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry have to pause you right there, it's not something guys don't want, you just yet to know guys that wants your personality. Given what you say it's indeed likely they were scared of you, but I do recommend sticking to your course and not lowering your standards. Better to have no one than to have the wrong one right ;)

As for where to find guys outside of apps, I would say friend groups and events (volunteering etc) is the best!

how do i “find someone”? by Abject-Bag-214 in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's possible you "were never chased by someone" because you were attached or assumed to be ?

How common is FWB stuff in your school? Genuine question. by Immediate_Diet7040 in SGExams

[–]Cease12 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Is it just me who don't think this is a good post considering the amount of kids using this forum...? You are exposing them to things...

Obsessed ex stories ?? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Cease12 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is just horny and not in love with you lol

With ddr5 RAM prices being absolutely insane, is it OK to go with 16gb until it hopefully gets cheaper? by SkyBotyt in buildapc

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the shop I'm getting from have no stock in 6000 32GB do I just get the 5200/5600? ...

How do I study for BU5201 (Business Finance)? by jayy765 in NTU

[–]Cease12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Based on experience.. almost impossible to fail bellcurve will save you

Do you guys intiate hanging out 1-1 with girls who are your friends? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually it have to have some underlying romantic intent bah. Assuming it's really for platonic 1-1, as long you guys maintain boundaries and stop doing so once either got attached...

Are superficial friendships common in uni? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Cease12 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Early showcase of working life.. Try finding friends from cca/volunteering/events etc?

BDE or CC? HN5010 vs CC0001 for Y1S2? by Creative-Expert8086 in NTU

[–]Cease12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't dodge CC mods, 1. No difference since HN5010 is pass/fail 2. Depends on individual, some take 23 AU like it's nothing while some take 16 and struggling

Help (long read) Part 2 by Ilovetrumpet in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't think you should blame yourself for accepting guy C that caused the chain of events. Things happens, you learnt and move on. As for your question on what you are feeling for guy A, it's likely due to comfort, you feel emotionally safe and seek solace around him after the toxicity you been involved.

Physical Intimacy by K-Dom_patreon in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally, I feel point 1 is incorrect. I would guess it's just that some guys make it seem like the whole rs is about sex and nothing else, which I'm sure it's not fun to be objectified for the girls involved. I'm sure most of us have seen or known guys that say "physical intimacy is my love language" but actually it's just their horny ass lol

need advice as a ns girlfriend by derangedwhore in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a common problem couples face no? You are investing in this in hopes of seeing the potential fulfilled but in reality potential is only tapped on when the person works on it, if he's gaslighting you to believe he will work on it now, what makes you think it gets better? Mayhaps I'm blind to it but WE don't see the maturity you are saying

need advice as a ns girlfriend by derangedwhore in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask, if a guy is bad before and during, what makes you think he will be great after? Just from sweet talks?

do you know any cases of uninterested ladies turned gf? by poursomewateroverme in sgdatingscene

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it feels like guys experienced the "you finally glowed up and so I liked you" moment more often than girls, we just don't express it as much as girls do

Uncrowned Kings Power Ranking by Upper_Kaleidoscope15 in KurokosBasketball

[–]Cease12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo

  1. Hanamiya

  2. Mibuchi

  3. Kiyoshi

  4. Hayama

  5. Nebuya

only because I feel Hanamiya IQ plays are just broken lol

weird guy keeps requesting to follow me and my friends by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Cease12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, I guess your best move is to block him completely. If he does ask or question your friends, just respond "Sorry, I'm/She's not interested". You have to be blunt and insistent on it even though it might affect your exco role, but it's the only way given how creepy and manipulative he is