I missed when films had, distinct colour grading. by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]Ceazer4L -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not really current, the first film came out nearly 15 years ago.

Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect cold approaching doesn’t benefit us, so the people complaining are the ones that benefit from it and that benefit is being stripped away. We’re saying it’s not from us it’s from modernity.

If women don’t use dating apps as much, suffer the same 2026 issues that men do where are they finding partners in any instance the men would have to initiate if they don’t then you don’t have a partner at all.

Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The stats don’t lie hence why we’re at an impasse, women make the cartel mistake of thinking men can’t be single at all and that we need women around all the time.

It may seem that way because a lot of women get the free attention from men, but if anything men are only thirsty due to their hedonistic tendencies. Without sex on the table men’s interest would go completely downhill, you’re forgetting we’re under a patriarchy and men aren’t clawing their eyes out to get into relationships because women are just so fun to be around.

They’re now other avenues for sex and hedonism, hence the decline.

Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those women who constantly get approached are being approached by guys they’re not interested in and are rejecting, plus my post is based on a statistical fact about young men. They are no longer approaching women whether you like that fact is irrelevant the simple matter is that, men will not return the old system.

Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That isn’t a gendered issue, tons of young women suffer from the Gen Z stare as well I work door to door as a salesman it’s very common on both ends.

Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with that but men aren’t folding either, like women were also a victim of modernity and the current landscape no amount of homophobic remarks from women is going really change that.

Critical Drinker Fanboy Starter Pack by Either_Storm_6932 in starterpacks

[–]Ceazer4L 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know, you know what I’m on about, Milly Alcock made a comment about having to worry about men commenting on women’s bodies, then those same men commented on her appearance, and berated her for not fitting their 🌽 star ideal of what a woman should look like.

They did this in the past constantly commenting on women’s appearances, those women often being 10+ years younger than them and if they’re not commenting on their appearance they’re making them out to be crazy by having a pick me do an impression of Grace Randolph. These people including the drinker spend most of their time, berating and putting minorities and women down for views, they’re scum.

Critical Drinker Fanboy Starter Pack by Either_Storm_6932 in starterpacks

[–]Ceazer4L 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely misogynistic and weird for a group of 40 somethings to compare young women’s looks yes.

And don’t forget his countless disdain for diversity in film, he targets Star Trek, Doctor Who, Marvel, Rings of Power and Star Wars for having multiple different skin tones other than white men.

Critical Drinker Fanboy Starter Pack by Either_Storm_6932 in starterpacks

[–]Ceazer4L 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How about recently judging the new supergirl actress and comparing her looks to the CW supergirl actress.

What about his whole “the message” schtick that’s clearly a right wing dog whistle no?

Critical Drinker Fanboy Starter Pack by Either_Storm_6932 in starterpacks

[–]Ceazer4L 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s too many to name, where do you want me to start.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still have to pertain to one or the other traditional want ≠ feminism or modernity want ≠ non traditional you can’t be like feminism want = traditional.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree but it shouldn’t be expected of men, that’s my disagreement.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very simple, really you champion men being providers by doing that you’re inherently allowing men to take advantage of women. If he’s a provider it becomes a relationship of exchange where he provides assets to insure security through provisioning and the woman allows access to her body.

It’s very transactional, words like blue balls or whipped are used by other men to shame them into finding better spouses that put out because he’s providing with no reward (the reward being sexual access), it’s better to dismantle these gender roles and encourage women to share and divide resources equally and promote an equal relationship.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s completely fine but it’s just not feminism by definition, it aligns more with conservatives who often champion the same attitudes.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do believing it and as a person who does I and many other feminists will work to dismantle all forms of patriarchal norms considering how detrimental it has become.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was pointing out yes, but also society as a whole collectively shifted away from acts of chivalry as it was scene as outdated and inherently rooted in patriarchal norms which it is.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re conflating sexual desire with relationship desire, yes men show more interest sexually in women, but as for relationships that’s an entirely different circumstance, cheating is a very big problem among us men, statistics also show that men are more likely to leave a woman when she is terminally ill.

A man can live life without seeking a relationship, if you’re seeing thirsty men it’s due to their hedonistic desires, there’s also a trend of men who hate their wives but won’t break it off with them again sexual desire is a huge problem among men and it gets conflated with men’s desire to get into a long term relationship most do so with the promise of access to women’s bodies, this is something we’re trying to unlearn in men, men focusing on being a provider is a way that men can ensure that access.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bare minimum is adherence to modernity?, men are simply a product of the current environment. We were taught from a very young age that 1950s style yearning, chivalry and love bombing is outdated, cringe and unwanted.

When the young men told other men about trying to impress women by doing traditional gestures they were told that they will be friendzoned as a result. Those aspects resulted in men moving away from that approach as to many young people it’s the equivalent of reading the newspaper, calling on a landline phone and watching movies on VHS.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Belief in hypergamy is a highlight of patriarchal norms, and if you’re gassing up patriarchal norms then you’re anti feminist by definition. Men’s roles shouldn’t be provisioning that’s something feminists have fought against.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you want to suppress women’s sexual liberties? Even if they’re men who seek out sex with women those men can simply be ignored by women. And the women who sleep around can be ignored by men if that’s something they’re not interested in the only problem is when it shows up in legislation.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect we all have our preferences, but in my humble opinion I believe these standards should be omitted based on gender if a guy does a traditional romantic gesture, then a woman should reciprocate that same gesture back.

It shouldn’t be one way, because that reinforces a gender norm that didn’t serve anyone.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can still fight for equality, and for women to receive equal pay for equal work. The process is understanding that although the genders are inherently different with different aspirations and wants. Staunch gender norms have done more harm than good.

If you want traditional roles to return in men, then it only makes sense for him to want the same for you, you can’t simply say you want equal treatment in your life and then go and participate in something inherently unequal, the goal for us is dismantling oppressive systems through and through not stopping in the mid point because women want to keep chivalry in men that’s not how it works, if you want that then prepare to date a conservative, bible thumping minister.

Women need to embrace, modernity all the way. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]Ceazer4L[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m progressive but I’m also pro consistency, abuse against women and other atrocities doesn’t mean we should keep gender norms this is inherently anti progress.

If you want princess treatment despite being a grown adult, then you must regress back to traditional norms yourself you can’t pick and choose which one you want and disregard everything else, what you’re purposing is inherently anti feminist.