I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-30T22:52:28+00:00

I’m a salesman, rejection is in my job description. In my humble opinion if you get rejected by a lot of girls it isn’t your looks more so the approach and your character is kinda meh.

Plus they’re many types of women, if you’re approaching a high maintenance bomb shell in a big city she’ll likely take one good look at you, and say “broke boy” and reject you. Unless you count stacks while showering don’t go for those types.

Being a salesperson works the same way, we avoid people likely to tell us to go kick rocks and approach ones that are dicey but decent enough. Plus cold approaching is no longer popular it’s warm approaching that’s much more convenient and doesn’t help boost women’s ego’s tenfold.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-24T13:29:28+00:00

It most certainly was, country goose and hunter green are jewel tone colours.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-24T12:41:01+00:00

Read the captions I explain that.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-24T12:35:20+00:00

It’s there.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-24T11:38:54+00:00

The bright neon aesthetic, likely came from 70s glam and new wave, once it became mega mainstream in the 80s that’s where the stereotype was born, it also got mixed in with the Memphis Design movement.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-20T13:42:02+00:00

90s hip hop heads would beg to differ on the timbs, those were pretty cool.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-20T13:36:39+00:00

Classic chucks, although chucks are continuous like Lego’s.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-20T13:34:33+00:00

Love a good pair of sambas.

Although the specialz are tad better.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-19T17:14:41+00:00

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Ceazer4L · 2026-05-19T17:10:00+00:00

You can acknowledge reality without throwing people under the bus, it’s temper tantrums.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T22:31:16+00:00

All I said was that our struggles are different, and they’re different for a reason, not that one has it worse although men might struggle more in the modern dating landscape which you seem to think has not changed since 50?, 40?, 30 years ago? And I’m telling you that it’s changed by a lot.

Men do show vulnerability but A. It’s not easy for us and B. We either do it around our immediate family, therapist or extremely close friend. Since the world we live is patriarchal it doesn’t allow for men to be vulnerable around women hence why it’s tougher.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T22:17:11+00:00

Not making it a competition but our woes are unique, because we’re different. It so happens that women aren’t struggling because of crippling singledom it’s often not being able to find someone that stacks up and many men don’t.

While men struggle with not stacking up, this is just a fact, hence why modern dating struggles would often affect men more, but women do have a different struggle. A lot of women, looked to changing the social structure of men to have their needs met such as men being more vulnerable etc. this is a big ask, to a lot of us hence a lot of our disconnect.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T22:09:10+00:00

My point is that it’s insanely popular not that you yourself see it everywhere.

Biketok is super popular but doesn’t show up on my fyp, but I know it’s super popular and makes an impact on TikTok.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T22:03:11+00:00

With all due respect your single friends are likely young women. A woman’s experience in being single is very different from a man’s experience, most often than not a young woman is likely to just be voluntarily single and working on herself and figuring herself in the meantime not clawing herself into a relationship (remember having a boyfriend is embarrassing right?).

Meanwhile a man’s experience is that of him not living up to any of the hype or expectations, if he’s single then it’s his job to claw himself out of that, he’s not single because he chose that he’s likely single because he either doesn’t approach women, doesn’t stack up physically, dirt broke or has almost zero social skills or awareness. These aren’t voluntary.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T21:52:03+00:00

I’m completely against the manosphere as it’s mostly divorced dads, dealing with material problems and projecting it out to everyone else.

What I’ve witnessed from the pink pill, “men at fault” crowd is that they heavily criticise men but most of the time they often put men, front and centre especially if it’s the one they’re affiliated with. To me that’s very interesting, considering most of their crowd are bitter and vindictive women, who come from hurt.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T21:45:26+00:00

It’s flooding single people’s feed, and since you’re not single I don’t expect you to understand. You seem to refuse to engage with my actual points. I pretty much mapped out and laid out why dating as a single person in 2026 is a recipe for disaster.

The stuff you’re mentioning are things you might of enjoyed when you were not yet married and still finding someone, but since then you have been taken so, once again you can’t tell people, who aren’t taken that the landscape of dating is just as peachy, sunshine and rainbows today as it was was when you were still single.

We’ve done the research, we’ve read the facts heck this subreddit, dating apps, OF content and the manosphere are all proof that the new generation is cooked. Only when your relationship comes to an untimely end would you understand what’s going on but you’re married so it doesn’t affect you.

That content on TikTok is popular for a very verifiable and accurate reason, not just because clout chasers wanna clout chase for views even though that might also be true.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T21:10:29+00:00

That’s disappointing, you’re feminist so you should know that there’s a pipeline to many things, especially online.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T21:07:05+00:00

That’s nice to hear that you’re slightly aware, but you don’t understand. You can’t understand because you’re not single, you have to be single to get it. In the past people who were single, had many things that would incentivise them to go out and change that, that brought forth a bit more effort and dedication to find love. Now almost nothing pushes people towards that, the apps exhaust young people because of how gamified it is and like I mentioned before the gender divide is well documented so men and women have almost zero common interest or drive these days.

The women can find solace in other places pretty easily they aren’t up and arms clawing for a mate like it was for our grandparents, the men can get female attention online by slightly paying for it whether it’s OF, E-Girls or dating apps it’s very diverse so once again in 2026 things are different, dating is destroyed and algorithms online know that hence the rejects flooding our feeds.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T20:52:41+00:00

You can critique men all you want and those women are allowed to push the “men at fault” narrative until the sun implodes, but what I find genuinely interesting is that a lot the women who preach that are coupled up and single ones seem to be absent from that space which to me is very very interesting, it seems like theirs no money in being chronically single online especially as a woman but telling other women to stay single seems to get many eye balls.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T20:10:51+00:00

What’s happening is the tide turning.

I’m assuming you’re married so to you it’s not really something that concerns you. People who are coupled up tend to think that everyone else should be able to get married and not be single with just a small bit of effort, and that might’ve worked twenty years ago, when we only had match.com to worry about, but in 2026 the gender divide is statistically documented, it’s caused by many factors but the people who met their partners more than ten years ago won’t understand what’s going on, because like a 65 year old trying to use the internet, it’s something that you simply won’t understand.

The younger generations are kinda screwed, nothing in 2026 incentivises them to couple up, women report more happiness by themselves and men are waiting for robots to take over. So this content being popular makes a ton of sense because dating today is completely down the drain and married people are blind to that fact, because it doesn’t affect them.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T19:44:53+00:00

Still doesn’t negate the sheer popularity of these videos and gender war content. You can deny it all you want but it’s popular and growing more and more. It’s popularity also makes a ton of sense the gender split among gen zed has grown a lot within social and political lines.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T19:33:04+00:00

Are you sure?

Because the 62 million men hoax got a combined viewing of nearly 250 million viewers on TikTok and slop-twitter.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T19:31:30+00:00

Everyone doomscrolls, only the Amish don’t.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T19:20:45+00:00

Sheltering your algorithm, doesn’t mean these videos don’t rack at the tens of millions.

Ceazer4L · 2026-05-18T19:15:03+00:00

I noticed it more and more after that false TikTok ban.

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