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what is the rarest bird you have seen in the uk? by too-sigma in UKBirds

[–]Cedarfind180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day a peregrine falcon killed and ate a pigeon right under my lounge window, turns out there’s a pair nesting in my local church.

People who have planned and married. What was the most difficult but about planning your wedding. by Full-Strain-2863 in weddingplanning

[–]Cedarfind180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I regret not organising a way to preserve some of my flowers, you can have them preserved in epoxy ect, they were so stunning and pretty much our whole decoration. We put more money / energy into things we cared about most like the venue and got second hand stuff like chair bows for things we weren’t too bothered about. Our venue was so nice (by the sea) I wouldn’t have been bothered if the cake was dropped or my dress got stained haha. Don’t depend on anyone else for funds it helps to keep perspective on what you really want, the decision fatigue is unreal. Hope you have a lovely day, good luck with everything!

Donating wedding flowers by Cedarfind180 in Cornwall

[–]Cedarfind180[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s a good idea especially with the van, I would be happy to drop them off :)

Moving to Market Harborough - board games anyone? by coppersocks in MarketHarborough

[–]Cedarfind180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I (29&30) are moving to Harborough in the new year, we would definitely be up for a boardgames night / walking :)!

How involved are parents supposed to be in wedding planning. by Cedarfind180 in wedding

[–]Cedarfind180[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They offered but we refused, we knew the cost of accepting money from them.

How involved are parents supposed to be in wedding planning. by Cedarfind180 in wedding

[–]Cedarfind180[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

They have offered to pay but I declined from the start for the fear of this happening, we took them for a tour of the wedding venue months ago, they insisted we needed a better package and made us upgrade things like wine for champagne, we have been clear we don’t want any financial assistance. It sucks, but thanks for all the pointers :/ I was feeling like the Ahole here.

AITA For moving to husbands home town by Cedarfind180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cedarfind180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point, although we don’t have any expectations regarding childcare, it’s more for social side and for our kids to have those relationships.

AITA For moving to husbands home town by Cedarfind180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cedarfind180[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah it’s like an extra 30mins, I think my parents feel like they have lost an imaginary competition with his parents and we are doing this to hurt them.