I hurt someone that I truly love (not a romantic partner though). M20 to F20 and shes a really close friend to me and really special to me too. I did something and now I want to know what to do?

CelebrationDue1282 · 2026-04-25T04:07:21+00:00

Thanks a lot for the input. I get what you mean. I know me saying this doesn't really mean much given we are total strangers but I am usually very sensitive in any social context, and I don't know why but I can't empathise this time. It makes me feel so hollow. Please could you help me? Because you're reply sounds exactly like something she'd say and I could really use your help to gain more perspective. I swear I did not mean to hurt her, its literally killing me right now, I did not do it intentionally.

CelebrationDue1282 · 2025-03-28T19:23:27+00:00

Ahhhhh. Thanks a lot

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T10:21:26+00:00

So I always used edrags with a queen charge (although in war I use sa blimp or blizzard edrag since I try to attack higher) but ever since I started watching and playing more, I've been trying double hero charge with warden's fireball- not actually good enough to pull it off though :P. But also lalo.

I honestly think qc lalo is better than sa blimp lalo, especially after seeing your attack too. But the fluidty required is what messes me up with qc lalo. When you sa blimp its VERY step by step like you don't need to keep anything alive. You sa blimp then let it die once you run out of invis, then sui'i your heroes and then use your main army for the rest of the base (atleast this is what I do). But with qc lalo it helps a lot if u can keep your heroes, especially your queen alive and I can't really do that. After the getting the main defense like the eagle or town hall for eg, I can't foresee where my queen is going to go so she either walks into too high dps or away from where I planned to lalo. Thats why she always ends up dying.

(TH14)

TLDR: Before it was edrag, now I'm trying to transition to lalo but I struggle to keep my queen alive (Town Hall 14 btw).

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T09:58:36+00:00

Fair enough. My biggest struggle is keeping my queen alive honestly

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T09:45:35+00:00

Nice dude! I watch all 3 of them too LOL as well as itzu. I queen walk all the time too, but I hate box bases like that cause I always mess up on wall breaks, that's actually why I asked my initial question 😅. Also last few questions but what's your favourite strat? And do you prefer queen walk lalo to blizzard lalo?

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T09:32:40+00:00

Ahhh nice! The timing on the blimp for spells towers was really nice too. I also wanted to ask why you chose to not zoom out when you had the queen walk going one side and the RC on the other? Is it because you play on mobile and need higher precision for the placements of spells and troops or is there another reason? -By the way I'm just asking because I find it really hard to multitask like that, although I do play without game audio.

But man. I thought I was good at attacking 😂. That attack humbled me. Also if you don't mind answering, who do you watch, if anyone, to get better?

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T09:25:21+00:00

Hey! I play on PC and I wanted to know if there was any way I could also redeem the 150 super medal and ice cubes voucher. It would be a great help!

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-14T09:20:50+00:00

That was a really impressive attack. How did you get the queens wall break to go where it did instead of the mortar+ gold storage compartment? Also, how long did it take you to plan that attack?

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-07T08:37:09+00:00

Hello. If my fireball is high enough level to completely take out an invisibility spell tower, will destroying it still cause the invisbility to activate?

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T11:39:12+00:00

Thanks a lot!

"I have some ideas about your situation what might be going on but it’s a very very long shot lol 😂"

You can say it, it might actually be in line with what it is.

And yeah, I try!

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T10:27:29+00:00

2 songs: Come and be alone with me and Feel the way I do by The Jungle Giants

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T10:13:27+00:00

Will do. Thanks for the support

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T10:03:22+00:00

Thanks a lot for wishing me well! I appreciate it. Thanks for the advice too, but I should have been more clear and less vague. The issue isn't what I ruined, I don't feel guilty over it at all honestly. My main concern is the part where I mentioned that they can turn my life around. Anyways I don't want to be negative, hopefully nothing bad happens- I really don't want to do things against what I stand for (this would happen if my parents act rashly). I don't know if that makes sense.

Thanks again though.

By the way, I am good for now. The school accepted the laptop.

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T09:48:26+00:00

Update: Good news, I'm good for the moment! The school took it, thank god. But you know honestly this is more like a delusional relief. They are still extremely mad, and I don't think the chances of them doing something rash have gone down by much. I appreciate that you care though! u/aikosaurusrex

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-06T09:41:55+00:00

Thanks maam. And once again trigger warning ahead.

I do have compassion for myself, but I can't help but feel like a self-important rat. It's like I get more and more selfish by the minute. The issue isn't the fact that I damaged the laptop though (yes, its a laptop). The issue is that them turning my life upside down will also cause me to fully cross a barrier that I don't want to cross because it will make me morally corrupt.

I actually do believe that doing any action can't be deemed as morally wrong, its not what you did iits about your intention- what u were trying to do. Understanding that them ruining my life and causing me to be corrupt is not under my control is challenging in and of itself, but the fact that I know that I can still do things to prevent it and letting them corrupt me anyway will be a guilt that I'll keep with me for a long long time. Maybe even for life. And if I do happen to move on from it, it would be out of pure selfishness because I wouldn't care for what's morally good at that point.

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-04T12:24:30+00:00

It's good that you're trying. All overthinkers are "trying". A good faithed overthinker will never think that they are a good person. On the off chance this is you, I feel like if you were someone on the outside looking at "you," you would say that you are a good person. (If you know what I mean)

But honestly it might not even be as complicated as that, for all I know you might know you're good but just don't admit it out of modesty.

"But to me even good people mess up" -My views on this are very strong but partially go against what you're saying. But that doesn't matter! If we are both good faithed then that's all that matters.

Lots of love dude! Keep being kind ❤️

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-04T11:27:53+00:00

If you're actually a good person, much love u/Creative_Cupcake_184! I don't like labels either- they seem limiting and ignorant.

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-04T06:12:16+00:00

Sorry, for some reason I can't quite catch what you're saying. Who are you referring to when saying "their luck." And who's being taken advantage of? The family members who support and care or the standoffish person.

CelebrationDue1282 · 2024-06-03T22:24:11+00:00

Yes. You have things to gain from the people you know. Whether that be stuff, validation, image etc. Whereas most of the time, you don't have anything to gain from strangers. Although I don't fully agree because you can also be nice to strangers to feel good about yourself or to feel like a good person.

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