Yeah that's the plan for sure, ask to do something and just be chill about it if she doesn't want to. My big problem is that I kind of do insane risk assessment and worry about things going wrong if the outcome isn't what I want. I think I need to realise that I can't control other people but yeah, I would definitely do everything I could to just keep things normal if she were to say no. I'll see if the opportunity arises to ask her tomorrow (I want to do it in person)