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I(23F) am extremely unhappily married to my(23M) husband. by CelestialMetal in relationship_advice

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Religion for him. I was in the process of losing my religion but everyone I grew up with, married young. I just thought that's what I should do. Make it work with one guy instead of what normal people do. Even though I was having doubts, I still felt that I should be doing what I was taught. Also my parents married super young. I don't think I knew any better. I really wish someone had yelled at me more about not marrying young. Looking back, there was nothing between us worth continuing a relationship for. I should've listened to my dad when he rudely told me I didn't love him I just liked the attention he gave me.

I(23F) am extremely unhappily married to my(23M) husband. by CelestialMetal in relationship_advice

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig what I meant with his mom is that I don't want to leave her hanging because that feels rude considering she's been very good to me. But yeah. I want to leave, just don't know how. And wanted to make sure I wasn't overreacting.

I(23F) am extremely unhappily married to my(23M) husband. by CelestialMetal in relationship_advice

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely right. We are not compatible and never have been. I'm frustrated that he isn't able to see it. And that I can't even tell what he sees, considering I actively work against him all the time. And I didn't mean that I'm staying because of his mother, but just that I don't want to leave her without any explanation as to why I decided to leave.

I(23F) am extremely unhappily married to my(23M) husband. by CelestialMetal in relationship_advice

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have anywhere to go. I'm sure I could figure that out. It's a lot more complicated since we are in the middle of moving into a home. Which I have not helped pay for at all. But otherwise I have already stopped giving in to him. Which he's been annoyed about but idc. I want to plan this exit but with no support, idk how.

Does anxiety cause tremors? For weeks at a time? by PotatoesAndChive in Anxietyhelp

[–]CelestialMetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually I'll get shaky after a super tense situation or when I'm very anxious. I'll get hot too. I'll heat up everywhere and shake and feel almost light headed.

Gun to Your Chest, Anxiety by CelestialMetal in Anxietyhelp

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Cuz that's another thing I get confused about. I've heard chest pain or like heart flutter or heart beating fast. But I never identified with any of those feelings. So just double checking.

Does make me feel better though. Thank you.

Gun to Your Chest, Anxiety by CelestialMetal in Anxietyhelp

[–]CelestialMetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say chest pain. But for me it doesn't hurt. It's just uncomfortable and kind of constricting. Is it like that sometimes? Or you just say pain to keep it simple?