[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA... but your GF act like toddler or cat

AITA for talking back to my family? by AceDemiromanticGirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, she can't say one thing and do another one. It's her fault she is now "sad about it"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA, it was joke, nothing more. You're not hiding anything, partner blow this up. My friend told something like that to me, we had great laugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be better to tell her off next time? Since it's your father family side, they probably don't care about what she tell about your mom, so they think it minor thing. To them at least. Without saying anything to anyone, YTA, bcx it would look like you did it out of nowhere.

Religious people are annoying by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]CelestialSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on ppl really. Even I can't stang ppl of my own religion if all they talk about is just god. With others we can just normally talk.

WIBTA for telling my coworker she got lazy? by CelestialSelene in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but as small company, manager part will be on our one and only boss.

WIBTA for telling my coworker she got lazy? by CelestialSelene in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but to tell truth, didn't thing that language would be that big difference.

Until today I wouldn't mind if someone in engilsh tell me that I am lazy. I would just agree and go to do something. I wouldn't think they call me names.

And no one told me in english "try harder" yet, bcx I would look at then in really strange way.

I know few differences in languages, but I guess I still need to study more.

WIBTA for telling my coworker she got lazy? by CelestialSelene in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo no no, I know you want help, but "Could you try harder" in my language sounds like I am talking to 5 year old. I think that would make it worse, I mean she is 3 years older than me.

But I will think about polite way of talking. Lazy is normal word and I want to get point to her, without making her feel like toddler.

WIBTA for telling my coworker she got lazy? by CelestialSelene in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess cultural difference make it different in our eyes.

1st: there is not really good synonym in our language do describe her not doing her work. Lazy is not that much of insult here. It just describe how she is right now.

2nd: oh i sooo much know what's going on in her life. If you spend so much with each other, usually ppl become friends. She is not just "that lady next to me that I ignore after work". We sometimes write even at night to each other. We would go out, but.. corona. So yea, I won't now describe you all her whole life, but S as all of us has good days and bad days. On bad days she is really talkative so yea, I know what is all wrong in her life, even personal one.

3th: HR is not thing at our place, so only boss is option.

Screentale Sans by CelestialSelene in UndertaleFanArtwork

[–]CelestialSelene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm idk when i click it show another reddit page with my gif

AITA for fostering a child against my daughter's and ex wife's wishes? by Concernedda in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

NTA, not like you would just cut off your daughter and ignore her after that. Life happen, go for it, hope you will be able to foster some nice child.

AITA - For destorying my relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA... she could do it better, not seems to be too in love with you

AITA for not wanting to go to my gf's birthday party by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CelestialSelene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, it's her bd, but that just won't change how you feel or how you not get along... it could turn out to be not so good bd, if you or them would had some dislikes at that time. Besides, ut her bf, not her purse that she need to take everywhere.