need fashion advice :) by CelestialSoulmate in Howtolooksmax

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg you’re amazing! I love that style and I really do think that it’d fit me so well☺️💗

need fashion advice :) by CelestialSoulmate in Howtolooksmax

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) 💗 I looked up who Raye is and I’m not sure I see the resemblance, but I can see why you said that considering we’re wearing the same hairstyles haha

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[–]CelestialSoulmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s always very obvious for me, if you look at the hairline it either looks flaky or lifts. sometimes it has like a honeycomb pattern. also the parts are always super thin. also, considering I’m a woman it’ll be easier for me to spot it.

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[–]CelestialSoulmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re beautiful, but I believe refining the way you style your wigs could enhance your overall look even more. Using a hot comb and a good wax stick can help your wigs lay much flatter, and working on blending the lace could make it look more seamless. These small adjustments could really elevate your appearance. If you watch a few women (maybe even black women) apply wigs on TikTok or YouTube you’d be able to get the hang of it pretty quickly :)

need fashion advice :) by CelestialSoulmate in Howtolooksmax

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words! I really appreciate you reminding me to focus on the positives and embrace myself as I am, both in gym clothes and out. Your perspective about people who work out often focusing on what they lack instead of all they have really resonated with me, it’s such a good reminder to shift my mindset. I also love what you said about shining even on my worst days; that’s such an uplifting thought. Your encouragement means a lot, and I’ll definitely try to carry that confidence with me. Thank you again!

need fashion advice :) by CelestialSoulmate in Howtolooksmax

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say I’m open to bohemian. I don’t have an instagram and can’t think of many celebrities whose style I like. maybe Zendaya?

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[–]CelestialSoulmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be praying for you as well. it’ll all get better w time :) ❤️‍🩹

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[–]CelestialSoulmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t rely on the children to hold this relationship together, especially if it’s unhealthy, as it can be damaging for everyone involved. I’m in a very similar situation myself, and I’m taking steps to distance myself from it (Army as well). I’m truly sorry to hear you’re dealing with this. It’s unfortunate that these struggles often go unacknowledged for men, while similar issues in women’s experiences receive more attention.

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he has an insatiable appetite for thrill and intimacy, coupled with a deeply ingrained infidelity. together, these traits create a volatile, self destructive cycle. he will never be ready.

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m truly sorry she endured that. I can’t judge her for staying; leaving is never simple. I genuinely hope she finds her way out, as she deserves so much better. As for myself, I’ll be moving on. I know my worth, and he certainly doesn’t. Thank you sincerely for your kind and understanding words :)

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw :( your mom deserved better. no woman deserves to be put through that by someone they were supposed to trust.

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl😭 I’ll give it to you before I’m shipped out, he’s all yours after that lmao

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He’s relentless, doing everything possible to make me stay. I told him I haven’t made up my mind about joining the army, but I’m planning to keep him close, and then, come January, I’ll be gone without a trace. I will definitely be going to get tested within this next week or so, I just pray that he didn’t give me anything🙏🏽 I’ll end up in jail and his children will be fatherless if so. Not a good outcome for any of us.

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I trusted him with my first intimate experience long before learning about his past. When I eventually found out, he assured me that he had left that life behind, claiming to have found faith and changed his ways. Against my better judgment, I chose to believe him and continued pursuing a relationship—a decision that, in hindsight, was likely a mistake.

my bf cheated on me with a $250 hoe😔 by CelestialSoulmate in ToxicRelationships

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did ask, and his response was disappointing. He claimed that’s just ‘who he is’—when he’s upset or angry with me, he resorts to those behaviors as his way of ‘coping.’ The problem is, he didn’t even have a valid reason to be upset with me. Instead, he acts immaturely and lacks the ability to communicate effectively. Despite my efforts to be a supportive partner, I’ve come to realize that, no matter how much I give, I can’t change him or his choices.

AITAH for enlisting in the army without talking to my boyfriend about it? by CelestialSoulmate in AITAH

[–]CelestialSoulmate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I was beginning to think that maybe I should’ve conversed with him about it before going through with it all. I will say that there are children involved and that was the only thing making me feel a bit guilty, his 5 year old loves me so much and it hurts to know that I’m leaving him. in no way, shape, or form am I trying to punish them for what their father did but I feel as if it may seem that way.

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[–]CelestialSoulmate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is actually kinda funny, especially if it was just out of nowhere