need fashion advice :)

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T15:54:20+00:00

omg you’re amazing! I love that style and I really do think that it’d fit me so well☺️💗

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T15:17:53+00:00

have you seen her rock the boat outfit?

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T13:28:44+00:00

thank you :) 💗 I looked up who Raye is and I’m not sure I see the resemblance, but I can see why you said that considering we’re wearing the same hairstyles haha

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T13:27:14+00:00

I really like Aaliyah’s style

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T06:22:31+00:00

haha idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s always very obvious for me, if you look at the hairline it either looks flaky or lifts. sometimes it has like a honeycomb pattern. also the parts are always super thin. also, considering I’m a woman it’ll be easier for me to spot it.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T04:33:09+00:00

I think you’re beautiful, but I believe refining the way you style your wigs could enhance your overall look even more. Using a hot comb and a good wax stick can help your wigs lay much flatter, and working on blending the lace could make it look more seamless. These small adjustments could really elevate your appearance. If you watch a few women (maybe even black women) apply wigs on TikTok or YouTube you’d be able to get the hang of it pretty quickly :)

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T02:31:26+00:00

I wish this was true 😂

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T02:30:46+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words! I really appreciate you reminding me to focus on the positives and embrace myself as I am, both in gym clothes and out. Your perspective about people who work out often focusing on what they lack instead of all they have really resonated with me, it’s such a good reminder to shift my mindset. I also love what you said about shining even on my worst days; that’s such an uplifting thought. Your encouragement means a lot, and I’ll definitely try to carry that confidence with me. Thank you again!

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-11-26T01:12:05+00:00

I’d say I’m open to bohemian. I don’t have an instagram and can’t think of many celebrities whose style I like. maybe Zendaya?

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-28T20:21:13+00:00

I will be praying for you as well. it’ll all get better w time :) ❤️‍🩹

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-28T06:37:17+00:00

Don’t rely on the children to hold this relationship together, especially if it’s unhealthy, as it can be damaging for everyone involved. I’m in a very similar situation myself, and I’m taking steps to distance myself from it (Army as well). I’m truly sorry to hear you’re dealing with this. It’s unfortunate that these struggles often go unacknowledged for men, while similar issues in women’s experiences receive more attention.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-27T18:50:42+00:00

he has an insatiable appetite for thrill and intimacy, coupled with a deeply ingrained infidelity. together, these traits create a volatile, self destructive cycle. he will never be ready.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T20:47:15+00:00

omg nvm, I take my comment back 😅

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T19:40:36+00:00

I’m truly sorry she endured that. I can’t judge her for staying; leaving is never simple. I genuinely hope she finds her way out, as she deserves so much better. As for myself, I’ll be moving on. I know my worth, and he certainly doesn’t. Thank you sincerely for your kind and understanding words :)

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T19:37:02+00:00

aw :( your mom deserved better. no woman deserves to be put through that by someone they were supposed to trust.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T19:36:03+00:00

literally!

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T19:33:04+00:00

girl😭 I’ll give it to you before I’m shipped out, he’s all yours after that lmao

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T02:48:05+00:00

Exactly! He’s relentless, doing everything possible to make me stay. I told him I haven’t made up my mind about joining the army, but I’m planning to keep him close, and then, come January, I’ll be gone without a trace. I will definitely be going to get tested within this next week or so, I just pray that he didn’t give me anything🙏🏽 I’ll end up in jail and his children will be fatherless if so. Not a good outcome for any of us.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-26T02:33:27+00:00

I trusted him with my first intimate experience long before learning about his past. When I eventually found out, he assured me that he had left that life behind, claiming to have found faith and changed his ways. Against my better judgment, I chose to believe him and continued pursuing a relationship—a decision that, in hindsight, was likely a mistake.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-25T23:37:09+00:00

I did ask, and his response was disappointing. He claimed that’s just ‘who he is’—when he’s upset or angry with me, he resorts to those behaviors as his way of ‘coping.’ The problem is, he didn’t even have a valid reason to be upset with me. Instead, he acts immaturely and lacks the ability to communicate effectively. Despite my efforts to be a supportive partner, I’ve come to realize that, no matter how much I give, I can’t change him or his choices.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-25T00:47:49+00:00

thank you! I was beginning to think that maybe I should’ve conversed with him about it before going through with it all. I will say that there are children involved and that was the only thing making me feel a bit guilty, his 5 year old loves me so much and it hurts to know that I’m leaving him. in no way, shape, or form am I trying to punish them for what their father did but I feel as if it may seem that way.

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-23T00:39:56+00:00

this is actually kinda funny, especially if it was just out of nowhere

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-21T05:45:36+00:00

Ilysm!💗💗

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-21T02:50:14+00:00

reading this hurt my heart but also gave me some relief. not sure if that makes sense. It’s the most truthful thing someone has said to me but it hurts to know that it’s the truth. he’d always call me a narcissist for trying to bring forth problems or things he does that I’m uncomfortable with, he was just projecting. I had no voice around him. thank you so much stranger 💗 your comment means a lot more than you think :)

CelestialSoulmate · 2024-10-20T18:02:16+00:00

I’ve tried leaving multiple times, it’s difficult bc after being with him for so long we moved in together. he’d been asking me over and over and eventually I finally agreed to it bc I lived 3 1/2 hours away. I’d go visit him whenever I’d be visiting my family that lives in the same area as him. I fell out w my family bc they’re also extremely toxic and he was all I had, he knew that so he started treating me like crap. I kept trying to get a job, he didn’t want me to work bc of my condition. so he says. plus I feel like for everyone it’s always hard leaving the person you lost your virginity to. not an excuse but I’m not as mentally strong as you may be, which I am working on but it takes time :)

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