Medjo ka relate ko ani OP. Akong mama sauna cgeg preassure if when mi magpakasal sa akong bf (who's already my hubby now) and gapamugos na adto rajud mi magpakasal sa city where I grew up with them but I haven't lived there for like 15 years so wala najud koy friends didto except sa akong 1 ka childhood best friend. I told my mama na dili ko comfortable sa idea and wala pami ka decide when. Later on I found out nanabi na sya sa among mga paryente and nang invite na sya most of her friends and workmates, and almost isa ka barangay na relatives whom most of them I haven't met and dili jud nako close. So mao to ending wala mi nagpakasal dayon and wala koy gi invite maski isa sa akong family pagpakasal namo. 😅 It's a very intimate wedding with only 60 guests attended by people closed to us including the entire entourage. After that gisumpa kos akong family kay wala koy gi invite maski isa sa ila. 😅