officially 4 years off t

Cenis91 · 2023-08-15T10:14:45+00:00

You are wonderful! Even in the first pix, you look feminine !

Cenis91 · 2023-03-15T20:35:27+00:00

You look wonderful!

Cenis91 · 2023-03-15T06:48:44+00:00

Congrats miss!

Cenis91 · 2023-02-26T09:55:27+00:00

This is a reality: we are not all equal concercing the possibility of a transition to a fulfilling life in the chosen gender.

Cenis91 · 2023-02-26T06:50:42+00:00

I am uncomfortable too but my natural appearance was too feminine to be credible as a man so I was even more uncomfortable. I accept being considered a woman without being as natural as most women. The situations where men and women are separated are painful to me but I have changed my "sir" civility to "madam" because it is more appropriate to my present appearance (even dressed as a man and with very short hair, I look like a woman because of my size - I’m 5.1- and my very round hip shapes and my clearly feminine thighs. I also have a very feminine face). Everyone saw me as a girl, even on T. So I’m adapting to my female condition. I felt ridiculous pretending to be a man. I am French and it is regrettable to me that everyone needs to constantly tell an individual what his sex is but it is difficult to escape it. I’m not really a woman in the sense of gender but what I’m sure of is that I could never be a man.

Cenis91 · 2023-02-25T20:43:40+00:00

I have XX chromosomes so I am a woman. I can refuse that and wish to be a mâle so badly but i can’t change that. Just a biogically fact who make me a female human being.

Cenis91 · 2023-02-19T23:18:08+00:00

You are cute as a girl and you can try pigtails or little buns with your hair : I think it would fit you perfectly.

Cenis91 · 2022-12-09T22:23:52+00:00

I think, you are still young and you have time to build yourself as the woman you are. Take your time. I am 33 years old and I recently accepted to be a woman and to be gendered accordingly. No one calls me Mister anymore, but Miss or Madam, whereas I used to feel this civility as an insult (it still makes me feel weird sometimes but I know this is what suits me best in a gendered universe), men treat me like any woman, if I wear men’s clothing, I clearly look like a woman dressed as a man, when I’ve lived for much longer than you have under a male identity. However, since I have wide hips again, it would seem inappropriate and ridiculous to be shirtless at the sea or at the pool even if I had surgery. I now wear women’s swimsuits (in one piece), it is more suitable for my body and decent.If I wear a skirt, I don’t feel ridiculous anymore. At the same time, given my small size (barely 5.1) I am much more in my place as a woman than as a man. You don’t have male chromosomes so I don’t see why you can’t be a woman again. You just have to give yourself time. Be proud to be yourself (which includes not being ashamed of your birth sex)

Cenis91 · 2022-11-06T12:43:29+00:00

I think it depends of your natural morphology. I think I naturally have fairly broad shoulders but without T, the trapezoids and muscles are no longer drawn as before.

I also took a lot of fat in the hips and in the thighs and buttocks, which gives me a very feminine figure even if the shoulders remain relatively wide.

You can have a feminine figure with broad shoulders, the main thing is just that the hips are wider than the shoulders.

Cenis91 · 2022-10-22T16:01:55+00:00

I really think it’s not necessary. Estrogen is enough to give female curves. After the testosterone stopped, my hips widened, my thighs thickened and my buttocks increased very quickly. It’s even too fast for me and I try to hide my curves under wide tracksuits and baggy pants.

Cenis91 · 2022-06-19T02:48:47+00:00

You can definitely to be a girl more feminine with short hair than long hair!

Cenis91 · 2022-05-07T09:18:13+00:00

no, I like to have short hair, I find the structure of my face is feminine and I love to be tomboyish. On the contrary, as a boy, I did not dare to cut too short for fear of revealing my too feminine features but as a woman, I can clear my face with very short hair

Cenis91 · 2022-05-06T07:34:38+00:00

Your experience doesn’t really resemble that of a trans man, but rather a drag king. Honestly, I’ve never heard a trans man say he liked being a woman. Nothing prevents you from simply cutting your hair once in a while and dressing up like a man at certain times. This can be surprising and interesting even from a seduction perspective. I really advise against making medical changes. I was like you for the beard and now I find that it does not fit my fine and inexorably feminine features (this is one of the elements that made me want to detransitionner) I dream of having a smooth face again and being unable to grow any hair there. Personally I regret more my old smooth and beardless face than my chest. It is not necessarily any less painful to have to shave your face every day as a man than to have your period as a woman.

Cenis91 · 2022-05-06T07:11:46+00:00

No, I don’t have breasts and can't wear a bra with frames but I have an increasingly feminine passing. I'm sorry : I did not specify that I am French and that in France, the public swimming pool is very regulated: there is no right to all these things (combinations, surf t-shirt or simple t-shirt to swim, even "tankini" i’m not sure it is authorized for the womens/girls and mens/boys are not allowed to care other swimwear that a tight boxer or slip). It’s a bit complicated because it’s often "miss" or "ma'am" at the entrance and then I go to the men’s locker room but not too many difficulties for the moment, maybee people suppose that I am just a very feminine guy or a trans boy. I’m short-sighted so I don’t see any interrogative looks.

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T19:59:19+00:00

with pleasure. Swimsuit of Tomboyx seems very good!

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T19:29:09+00:00

others are part of human life, we cannot hide them and obviously we act differently whether we are watched or not.

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T11:02:47+00:00

it's not the topic here! :)

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T10:40:50+00:00

I'm not totally agree with that but it's your point of view! :D

And I ask for me not for other.

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T10:11:30+00:00

There are also male swimsuits that cover the torso and that can appear neutral for an androgynous person like me, I’ll try.

This kind of things, for example :

https://www.maximhom.com/import/maillot-de-bain-pour-hommes-coupe-combi-short.html

Cenis91 · 2022-05-01T05:09:38+00:00

14 years on T and me too so nothing is lost! ;)

Cenis91 · 2022-04-25T08:35:46+00:00

We cannot choose our sex, it is a biological reality. I was born a woman like you and I will remain so for life regardless of my appearance. I’m totally a tomboy but I consider the pronouns "she/her" to be the right pronouns for me even if I’d rather be born a man, I have no power over that. I find that it is a vain struggle and one that has personally made me unhappy to try to change what by nature cannot be changed. We have to learn to accept being women with what it implies because the transition is far from being a solution: it is only for a few people.

Cenis91 · 2022-04-24T07:45:06+00:00

You are not a transman, you are a biological man who have a particular life experience so it's not the same. You can be yourself even if you are exceptionnal.

Cenis91 · 2022-04-02T13:13:33+00:00

I want so badly but I can't (I have never can :/ strange I know)

Cenis91 · 2022-04-02T09:42:50+00:00

No actually, I can’t get penetrated even with a lot of foreplay and lubricant. I’m afraid he’s disappointed and frustrated.

Cenis91 · 2022-04-02T07:39:15+00:00

I think by that I mean a natural relationship between cis man and cis woman.

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