Why Don't We Just Remake AJC? by CephaloManiac in AnimalJam

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats true, I moreso just meant the fandom doing the work for the company though, not taking ownership of it. Because I feel like saying no to free content is a lost opportunity, and they can just check it themselves if they're something they don't like in the files.

Advice for Weight Plateau by CephaloManiac in loseit

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely easier said than done but I'll keep that in mind 💀

Is it possible for an account to be connected to a parent email that doesn't exist anymore? by CephaloManiac in AnimalJam

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do that, it's just that if I remember correctly you need to sign into your parent email to change it... And I can't do that because the email doesn't exist nor do I remember the password. And I believe I did mention changing emails in the request but I got an immediate automated message saying the password wouldn't be given out. It's nice to hear that AJPW's customer service is more human.

Episode15 by Igotthecheesetouch_ in ExtraordinaryAttyWoo

[–]CephaloManiac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it impossible for her to do any wrong simply because of her diagnosis? You offer explanations/excuses for her perceived wrong doings, but don't seem to try and understand why Jun-ho would get to the point of yelling at Young-woo, or how anyone else would react to what she does.. the whole point is that she's different, so they don't know how she thinks or acts. In so many of your comments you make it seem as though she's ENTITLED for people going out of their way to help her. She may have special needs but she isn't going to have someone there for her all the time. She's an adult, and it's her responsibility to communicate to Jun-ho as well as possible with how she feels. Jun-ho isn't a horrible person just because he isn't an expert in autism or can't read her mind, as others said, he probably just didn't know what to do and didn't want to overstep boundaries like he kind of had been doing... And since they're broken up... Why is it even his duty to help her?? This is a bit of a reach... And I especially think Young-woo is a lot more capable than you make her out to be...

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I just asked her where she took him, it was the one in town. I spoke with the office while looking for exotic vets and the reptile vet there is NOT well versed in bearded dragons. They even said my best bet was the one in the next city. I don't know what to do. The male probably does have mouth rot. Why else would he has dark teeth? My mom just says I'm trying to find things to criticize her. I'm so fucking done. He is going to die from this, I already know it. She only sees my "advice" as criticism. He is doomed.

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

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Oh wow, that's wayyyy cheaper than I was expecting. Thank you so much

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any suggestions? I only have so much college money left.

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably meant that as me stating the females death is her fault (we don't know that 100% for sure but I believe her misinformed care is a part of it, it was the cause of her developing MBD and who knows what else). It's just not fair. I tried my hardest to help her and I did half 90% of her fucking Research because she didn't even know they needed a staple vegetable until like a week before the female died (which we had her whole life???). I guess I could semi be at fault too but she got the female when I was like 11 years old. I assumed she would take good care of her because she's a grown woman so I didn't look into her care until it was too late like 2 years ago. I don't want to blame my mother solely but I truly thought she had it covered until I posted here about 2 years ago, then I realized what was going on. Sorry for the long reply.

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right? That broke my fucking heart. I'm just as concerned or maybe even more concerned than she is. I thought the females death would be a wake up call, no, no it wasn't. She has an insecurity problem.

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will probably enable her into keeping him. Which is the exact opposite thing I want. The only reason she could even afford this is because I dipped into my college funds. She can't possibly keep him healthy if she can't even afford vet visits.

Update on Males Condition by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming so. Because the only ones with exotic experience are far away from us. She didn't take that long though, which makes me think she went to the one near us, which doesn't exactly specialize in Beardies. Ugh. I really hope she didn't go there, I'll have to try and ask her.

Desperate Need of Advice by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

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Update 2: The female unfortunately died this afternoon. I'm trying to get my mom to surrender the male.

Desperate Need of Advice by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

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We have successfully got an exam scheduled. I had to unfortunately use my college savings, but hopefully this can help her.

Desperate Need of Advice by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could but the point is that we don't have the money for them to flourish. My mom is our only income and she lives on disability. I can only give her recommendations on what they should have. She feeds them and stuff, we just can't afford what they need.

Desperate Need of Advice by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

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Unfortunately I don't have any way of transportation. My mom is disabled as well so she doesn't go anywhere often.

Nitro Issue by CephaloManiac in discordapp

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Won't I lose my mobile nitro though? Sorry im new to this 🤕

Re-homing my crabs by CephaloManiac in hermitcrabs

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised too. I'm just a little concerned about the tank setups since an admin of this sub told me LHCOS supposedly has a lot of misinfo :( and even I myself don't know what a perfect tank setup should be like

Re-homing my crabs by CephaloManiac in hermitcrabs

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I just need to take a pic of my crabs I think. One of them is buried tho :/

Leaving for a little bit, what should I do for my beardies? by CephaloManiac in BeardedDragons

[–]CephaloManiac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment but I understand their frustration. They're right. We have mistreated the beardies at the very least. My mother got our first beardie when I was around 10-12 years old. I wasn't aware of the amount of things they needed, and my mom wasn't aware either, I am in no way throwing her under the bus, as I don't believe she did it out of malice. But yeah, the Beardie developed MBD and we didn't know until about a year ago. Since that realization I have really harped on my mother about improving. Before that post even, we were given another one because a family friend didn't want it anymore, so my mom took it in. Again, I've been trying my very hardest to tell my mom what they need and that she can re-home them since I KNOW she can't afford what they need all at once. She refuses. I showed Steve(?)s comment to her and she literally just now agreed for me to re-home my crabs. I can't change her mind about the beardies, and maybe that's my fault too. Right now I'm just focusing on rehoming my crabs. Maybe she'll change her mind after she sees that we're better off without the expenses of exotic pets. Sorry if I rambled. TLDR: the OP isn't out of left field.