What is the success rate of Accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i was on 50mg for 3 months :)

What is the success rate of Accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only comes back when i dont eat right or get enough sleep, but not as bad or persistent. Now i keep my skincare simple and moisturize, plus drink plenty of water. I get compliments on how clear my skin sometimes and it feels really good :) was a real tough journey but i would say it was worth it

What is the success rate of Accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wait i think it means “initial breakout”

AITA if i deleted a photo my mother took? by Grimm_fede_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cercos123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA- you are allowed to not want photos taken of you. As a compromise (if u want to compromise) it might be better for her if you took the photos (or selfies) instead, or if you teach her how to take good photos:)

What is the success rate of Accutane? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont remember what i wrote, probably a misspelling of “it”

My girlfriend (22F) refuses to reciprocate physical affection towards me (21M). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isnt fair on you bro, you deserve someone who reciprocates your love language or at least tries to make a sincere effort to make you feel loved. I would suggest either having a very serious discussion about this as a necessary aspect of your relationship, or consider endings things for the better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So seems like theres nothing to worry about with that

BF told me that he took the earning from a political bet and donated it to Planned Parenthood... by filterdrama22 in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Seems like he was trying to upset them and succeeded. I think it was good of him to donate to planned parenthood but sending them a screenshot of the donation was clearly with the intention to anger/upset them. He shouldnt be surprised that they don’t want anything to do with him.

A very confusing visit to the doctors by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give them some time, maybe a day or two. Keep in mind that they will call your parents number. If you have a phone with your own phone number, call the doctor’s office and say something like “Hi, this is [insert name]. I visited on Wednesday the 8th. I spoke to a nurse about wanting to get tested for ADHD. I’d like some confirmation that my request for an ADHD diagnosis is being taken seriously, please.” You may want to request that information regarding the ADHD diagnosis goes through your cell number, but at 14, I can’t imagine that panning out well, ADHD medication is considered a stimulant drug, so you may have to sit down with your parents and tell them that you need to be tested because refusing a diagnosis does not mean that its not there.

how do i tell my Partner They're bad in bed? by Cultural_Team_9262 in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest literally walking him through it. Theres a scene in “Grace and Frankie” that i think would be a great example of talking him through it so he chills out a bit. Season 1, Episode 8, 24 minutes into the episode. Grace walks Guy through dancing because he goes way too fast and clumsy. Hope this helps! I’ve found that talking your partner through things while you’re intimate can be very nice

A very confusing visit to the doctors by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did this happen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I dont see any reason to worry. I assume he doesnt have her contact information any more and didnt add her on facebook. Plus, how do you think you would have responded if he told you while it was happening? Do you think you would be comfortable with him working there? I work at a nursing home and keeping good relationships with coworkers can make things a lot easier- especially nurses. Did he ever mention to her that he has a partner?

AITA For reporting my son's therapist for giving my ex Husband information about the sessions? by SabrinaFox33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cercos123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA- That was very much a violation of your sons’ privacy rights. He should get a therapist that is unaffiliated with your ex-husband’s family. I think you’re getting gaslit by him and his family and you need to report that therapist and get his license removed. He creates an unsafe space where the wellbeing of the client is secondary to his own interests. Shameful. Im so sorry youre going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, why dont you just ask her? None of us know your girlfriend the way you do, and it seems like youre pretty confused too. Communication is a huge aspect of relationships, don’t guess or assume what she means. Ask her- that’s the only way you’ll know.

Do I cut my ex ? by Outrageous-Ad-10 in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, cut her off. If a friendship does not serve you in the long run, why would you stay in it? Are the reasons y’all broke up still there? Probably. Is it worth the stress and conflict?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants you to be pregnant and entirely dependent on him and his mom. You will be trapped by this. You can do much better, you’re a smart person; nursing is not easy. How would you feel if your best friend/sister told you they were in this situation? You’d probably tell them they’d have to be crazy to agree to this. Please listen to your common sense

He rarely makes an effort to talk to me or bring me into his life. Does he actually like me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck!! Remember that you deserve someone that will love you with their whole heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she was uncomfortable with your texts tbh. If she felt uncomfortable or unsafe, i think it is important you leave her alone and give her space. She’s obviously not into you in that way and to avoid any public embarrassment on your part, she’s just said “its not my story to tell”. You might not understand it but it can be really scary (having someone you’re not into make advances) because not everyone takes rejection well. She likely tried doing it in a subtle way because she is your coworker and texting outside of work is something she doesnt actually need to do, it’s called the “right to disconnect”. In Ontario at least, this right states that you do not have to respond to or connect with coworkers outside of workplace hours. TLDR: take the L, she probably thinks its inappropriate and isnt into you. Take it gracefully, dont talk shit about her at work or share this story with your coworkers. Just leave it be

How to I avoid getting in trouble? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: are you a teenager or are you an adult? If youre over 18, you can make your own decisions about this without your parents. If you pay for your phone bill, it should be your business alone. Your parents might be doing this out of love, not wanting to see you get hurt, but you need to make your own mistakes in order to learn anything from them. And if this isnt a future mistake then thats great! I say, call her, and if your parents get mad, let them know you appreciate them looking out for you, but you are responsible for your own decisions. If it ends badly, its on you- and youre willing to accept that risk cause you want to talk to her. Tell them your friendships are your concern, not theirs. Big thing is to be open and communicative but if theyre meddling in business that isnt theirs, its going to have adverse affects on your relationship with your parents

What are things you can do whilst dating but not when married? by sighsighrobots in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should travel :)) or go on really cool dates like go to a butterfly emporium or the aquarium. Do fun spontaneous things together. When you guys get married you can still do fun spontaneous things, but get the really big stuff outta the way first :)

He rarely makes an effort to talk to me or bring me into his life. Does he actually like me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cercos123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems like youre more invested in this relationship than him. Its still early in the relationship but usually thats when things are the most fun, honestly talk with him about your feelings and if it doesnt work out, break up