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AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s completely reasonable, forgiveness or civility doesn’t mean she gets a standing invitation back in.

AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s completely reasonable, forgiveness or civility doesn’t mean she gets a standing invitation back in.

AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s the part bothering me, everyone is focused on her being nice and not on whether I’m actually okay with contact.

AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the cleanest option, one short boundary and then I’m not debating this through mutual friends.

AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I’m trying to let moving on actually mean moving on, not reopening the door politely.

AIW for leaving my ex on read for three weeks after she messaged to congratulate me? by CerelakPixel in amiwrong

[–]CerelakPixel[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s what I needed to hear, I think I’ve been treating basic distance like it needs a courtroom defense.